

Question
I've been separated with my husband for over 4 years but believe me I can't shut the door. Whenever he calls me wanting to see me I just jump and use the opportunity. The problem is he has moved on ,he's now staying with someone and I believe he's about to process the divorce.
What do I do? Do I just to let go of him? I don't see a future with him because since we've separated he's not even providing the neccesities for our 2 kids.
Please advise.
Answer
There is no quick answer to this; please find a therapist to take you through the process (FAMSA or SADAG, 011 783 1474). There is part of you that still believes in a possible future with him – and of course you would want that, you have children together, and you were happy in the past. Your logic says let go, but part of you can't (emotion). This will get sorted if you work it through with a therapist.- Colinda Linda

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