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1. Your partner hides a dab of honey on his body. Your job is to find it with your tongue.
2. Eat a whole meal off your partner's body: starter on his chest, the main course on his belly, and dessert on his abdomen and genitals.
3. Go on a sexy picnic – outdoors, or on your bedroom floor. Pack a large, soft rug, chilled wine, honey, melon slices, strawberries, cherries, frozen grapes, a selection of suggestively shaped foods (carrots, cucumbers, chocolate bars, lollipops). Then use your imagination.
4. Give your partner a "three-handed massage". Sit astride him and rub massage oil over the front of his body, and over your breasts, abdomen and thighs. Begin massaging him with your hands and then start using the other lubed-up areas of your body. All-over arousal for you both.
5. Blindfold yourself or your partner, and stand together in front of a mirror. This encourages the person who is watching the action in the mirror to be completely uninhibited.
Got any tips of your own to share? Tell us in the comment box below.
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| ... I'm not knocking ideas such as those presented in this article ... BUT ... I am curious. Surely people are not sooooo insecure and uncertain that they need manuals on how to feel aroused by their partners? If there is genuine 'chemistry' ... then the arousal is natural. And lovers slowly learn each others' bodies and preferences. A quick 'hump' is another matter altogether. Maybe it's also an age thing. I am way, way more confident at 40 than I was at 20 or 25. No need to "prove" anything. And people, it really DOES get better with age. :-) As I said, not knocking anything ... merely commenting. Any other thoughts? | ||
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| Curious on 11 Feb at 16:10 |
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| just be your self and wear something nice or put nothing at all and youi willl see the temptation | ||
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| nopinki on 15 Feb at 12:54 |
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| Not too sure about eating a meal off my partner, that doesnt sound too sexy. Perhaps it is because we are 'told' that it's normal to get in a sexual rut that we do. We believe it is enevitable. I personally dont think so, I think the style plays a huge part. If its rough then u feel hot and sexy and if its slow and sensual then u know ur loved. Women are generally more mental, mix it up!!! I love 3 somes aswell. Rockin it at 24!! Safe sex and communication also. My man makes me feel sexy and loved... and from the bottom of my heart believe him. Its all I need. | ||
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| DarkLittleMaiden on 17 Feb at 10:20 |
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| i am 39 got divorced last year nd since then have had the best sex of my life - all with younger guys did not have to eat meals off each other etc - all just pure lust...... oh and i am normally in my work clothes which is anything but sexy | ||
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| sexy on 20 Feb at 15:08 |
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