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First outings for babies

 
First outings can be highly intimidating, but they have to be embarked on sooner or later. Here are some tips and advice that will make going out a pleasure.

 
A trip to the local grocery store tends to pose little challenge to your average modern woman: zap into your car, blaze round the store collecting what you need, pay, then head home again.

Add a new baby to the equation and you're into a whole new scenario. What was a simple trip in life-before-baby now assumes mammoth proportions.

Although the idea of staying at home has largely fallen by the wayside, some mothers swear by being housebound with their babies for the first few weeks.

On the flip side, many mothers adopt the stance that their offspring should slot into their lives and that this will be achieved with minimum fuss if the philosophy is implemented sooner rather than later.

For these moms, the prospect of six weeks at home with a newborn baby strikes chords of terror. For mothers who opt to get mobile as soon as possible, the best advice is probably to be adaptable.

How to do it
Probably the best advice from mothers who've "been there, done that" is to keep calm, relax, pack, plan, and don't get over-ambitious.

Once you're mobile, if you keep trips manageable and enjoyable, you're likely to be rewarded with a baby who can be taken pretty much anywhere.

New experiences for babies are also vital for mental growth, which occurs at a staggering pace between birth and two years. Trips out are a fantastic source of new experiences and sensations and, as your baby develops, a valuable learning tool.

Again, the emphasis should be on striking a balance: stick to trips with which you and your baby are comfortable, go home if over-stimulation threatens. And bear in mind that if your newborn spends the entire day out – being shifted from pillar to post – the result is likely to be a hysterical baby and equally hysterical mother by the end of the day.

Once you've conquered initial fears and nervousness, you'll find that it's quite easy to tote your newborn along for trips to the dentist or hairdresser, nursery or meeting friends for lunch.

It can be done – and the more you do it, the easier it becomes. And if you're thinking that first visits are fraught with pitfalls, there's always the prospect of tackling outings with mobile, active, inquisitive, forthright toddlers to look forward to.

8 tips for travellers

  • Know how your baby equipment works. A first outing is not the time to launch a wrestling match with the Snug ‘n Safe. Make sure you can adjust straps and fit the device in your car. If your mind just can't get to grips with instruction manuals and you have the mechanical aptitude of a new, ask somebody knowledgeable to show you how it's done.
  • You're going to be spending the next few years of your life packing a baby bag, so start now and you'll soon get it down to a fine art. Make sure you have everything you need to conduct an impromptu nappy change: changing mat, wipes, spare nappies, plastic bags for used nappies. Some mothers recommend keeping a small, packed nappy bag near the front door, ready to pick up and go.
  • Spare clothes are a must – but not only for your baby. Fling in a spare T-shirt or top for yourself too, or you're likely to end up looking a wreck while your little one is polished and gorgeous.
  • Resign yourself to baby-friendly outings for the next few years. There's nothing more uncomfortable than visiting an environment where your child isn't greeted with rapturous enthusiasm. Forget the Moosehead and the Hilton – head for garden nursery coffee shops and other outdoor venues.
  • If you've opted for the dummy route, a dummy chain is an invaluable device for keeping the gadget attached to the babe, rather than being flung to none-too-hygienic floors.
  • Keep it simple initially. Make your first trip a visit to the local convenience store, rather than an all-morning schlep to the mall. Subsequent outings get easier, so save the more ambitious projects for later.
  • Adopt realistic expectations. A young baby kept on the go from early morning until evening is likely to be fractious and over-tired. Find a balance between getting out and establishing comforting home routines.
  • Babies respond directly to mothers' vibes – so if you can stay laid back and casual, you're likely to be rewarded with an equally mellow babe. Similarly, if you're uptight you'll both be frazzled by the end of the venture.
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