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Booty call rules
If you're going to play, make sure you stick to the rules...
Article: Prudence Goredema and Lerato Mogoatlhe from True Love
Image: Ablestock
Times have changed and women are as entitled to a quick, no-strings shag as the next guy. But before you make that call, remember the following:

1. Unless a condom can be found, put all calls on hold.

2. No emotional discussions and falling in love. (Interestingly, many booty callers add that while intercourse and other forms of sex are fine, kissing is strictly forbidden, since it's too emotionally loaded.)

3. If a booty call sleeps over, they mustn't leave traces of their visit.

4. Don't socialise with your booty call and never call for any reason other than to hook up.

5. Don't make more than three SOS calls a month. It's a casual sexual relationship, so your booty call needs to rest easy, knowing you're not about to become invasive.

6. Avoid the redial button. If he doesn't answer or call back after you make the first attempt, it's time to reach for your bedside book.

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So sad to see what the world has made of a God given gift. Then the people want to know why AIDS, STD's and unwanted pregnancies happen. They being thought that "gone are the days of one partner" sex is now a game.
Dale on 03 Jul at 10:03

 

Is it really necessary to encourage love-less sex (point 2)? Not sure if you've noticed but we have a huge epidemic on our hands called HIV/Aids (despite your opening point of condom use)! And don't tell me to chill out or relax - if you performed as much HIV couselling as I do daily, you would print a retraction and get involved in a positive manner!
Justin on 03 Jul at 10:19

 

I agree with Dale & Justin. This article is irresponsible and making light of a serious topic. I'm a young, single guy and I think this is sending the wrong message. True Love should be more responsible to their readers instead of looking for sales with cheap articles.
Stan on 03 Jul at 11:35

 

As it says above: "If you're going to play, make sure you stick to the rules..." Please wake up. A booty call is casual sex. There is no love, no spirituality, just physical release. If its not for you, move along.
riv on 03 Jul at 11:36

 

Please note that this is choice you make.There is a shortage of both men and women,eitheir lesbians or gay.So ,if you can get your groove on with no strings attached,why not?If can't handle the heat,get out of the kitchen!
Shirley on 03 Jul at 11:49

 

While I agree that promoting promiscuity and unsafe sex are not good things, I don't see any such thing here. The closest to it is saying that women are as entitled to no strings sex as guys are. If that's promoting the act then how come we don't promote reading by telling people they're entitled to read books? Also, note that the very first rule is "no glove, no love"... That's promoting responsibility. Responsibility is not not acting, it's being accountable for the actions one takes.
CTheB on 03 Jul at 12:11

 

Who wants a booty-calling girl anyway? There are still women who does not fall for media hype which tells them they have to sleep around. How gullable can women be? On the other hand women wants equal status to men, let them then do refuse removal for the local municipality and give us men first-for-women insurance as well.
Eric on 03 Jul at 12:32

 

riv, unfortunately one cannot divorce sexuality and spirituality. they are mutualy describing pictures of each other. one cannot have physical sex without creating a spiritual bond, and one that was designed from the outset to be a unique and once-off bond. bonding and breaking that bond over and over has the same effect as welding, tearing off, and re-welding metal. it is devastating in its destruction.
jimg on 03 Jul at 12:52

 

If yoiu do these things it's fine, but don't poison our youth by letting it sound like being acceptable and OK
Sexist on 03 Jul at 13:09

 

its time to acknowledge that this is the reality... in this day and age independant, professional women have every right to a 'friends with benefits' relationship - like all the men who have been exercising this practice for decades... so why not supply advice to women who choose to exercise this right? I love the article! You prudes should go read magazines that encourage women to be the domestic goddess sent down to men to satisfy their selfish needs... you obviously are not willing to acknowledge reality!
Razby on 03 Jul at 13:30

 


 
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