Installing a husband
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Position of the week: sitting pretty
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The perfect pounce
Offer him something to drink or ask if he'd like to see your new computer game...
On the forearm with your hand is easiest, but on the upper arm with your breast is better.
Laugh at his jokes. Look him in the eyes and smile. Respond positively to what he says. Men find all these things encouraging.
If the conversation lulls, let it. Guys generally get silent before they move in for the kiss. Don't ruin the moment.
"How are you at foot rubs?", "Are you ticklish?", "What time do you have to get up?" You get the idea...
Talking about sex can make us feel even shyer, but it's better to sort out safe sex issues before you and your man get naked. It's far easier to ask how he feels about condoms in the course of a casual conversation than when you're already between the sheets.
"I’d really like us to take it slower" is easier to hear over a glass of wine at dinner than a screech of: "Slow down, idiot!" in the heat of the moment. No-one wants to feel like a palooka in bed.
Feelings are easy to bruise, especially about sex. Be kind rather than accusatory. "You know what would drive me crazy? I'd love it if you..."
If you bombard your man with suggestions, he may begin to feel sexually incompetent. Instead, be encouraging. The more you compliment him, the more excited and capable he becomes. Sit close. Touch him reassuringly.
When you get what you want in bed, let him know. Say: "Yes, that's it!" Moan, sigh or move around. Psychologists say when certain behaviour is rewarded, it happens more often. Praise him when he does something right. Tell him what you like.
Make I rather than you statements. There's a big difference between "I'd love you to get more forceful with me" and "You aren't aggressive enough."
Remember actions speak louder than words.
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| my wife always feel tired such that she do not want sex with me and we fight she sleep naked and i have feel heat the all the night and it do not bother her sometimes she plays with my private parts but when it comes to sex she is tired. And now i am in trouble cause i have pregnanted someone, she does not know about it . When i try to talk about our sexuality she do not want to listen. I think she having an affair . this has been happening for a long time | ||
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| Sifiso on 22 May at 12:10 |
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| you are right she's having an affair and she doesn't feel you anymore! as soon as she finds out about your pregnant girlfriend, she'll feel guilty | ||
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| Tman on 22 May at 16:37 |
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| As from woman is not affair and she is not having affair, this thing come and go as from us, is not like man. sometimes we woman enjoy to just play and especially when we are in love, that make us to be setisfy without sex. | ||
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| bmf on 05 Jun at 09:47 |
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