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Over the past few years there've been a lot of studies linking a woman's fat percentage with her sex drive. It would seem that ladies with a large appetite for food have a large appetite for, well, ahem, other things too.

And everybody knows if you're a little plump you look much better draped on a bed, or a table or a couch or a meadow – take your pick – than you would vertically. (The Renaissance Masters knew this four hundred years ago.)So get down and dirty with these tips for plus size gals and guys.

When you're big and he's not

Lie on your side with one or both knees drawn up to your chest. He kneels in front of you (on a cushion if necessary) and penetrates. Both of you can thrust and rock.

When he's big and you're not

Get him to lie flat on his back with his legs straight. His belly should spread out evenly. Straddle, mount and ride him like a bull.

When both of you are fat

1) Man on top: Lie down on your back with a few cushions under your bum. This should angle your vagina for easy access. He kneels in front of you and enters. He can rest back on his haunches if he's too heavy to lie on top of you or use his weight to press against your clitoral area.

2) Woman on top: Sit on top of your man instead of kneeling (corpulent sex can be hard on the knees.)

3) Couch potato: Use a sturdy couch, bench, ottoman or chaise longue to help support weight. This is great for women on top positions.

4) Doggy style: Go down on all fours, lift your butt in the air and arch your back to give him access. Lie down if this is too hard on those knees.

Tips:

  • Stretch regularly.
  • Don't let body issues hold you back.
  • Oral sex works for all body types.
  • Don't forget to masturbate.

    Everyone should be able to have and enjoy sex, so experiment, experiment and experiment to see what works for you. The only thing holding you back is you. Happy shagging people!

    Share your full-bodied love making tips in the box below.


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    Thank you for acknowledging that fat people also have sex. I'm going to try this with my plus sized lady tonigth. We have a great sex life and i think she;s beautiful and sexy.
    tony on 25 Nov at 18:06

     

    WE ARE BOTH BIG AND SHE FACES UP ON HER BACK , I LIFT HER LEG UP FROM THE SIDE I WILL BE ON , I GET ON MY SIDE FACING HER AND PUT MY TOP LEG BETWEEN HERS AND THERE SHE GOES SCREAMING AS SOON AS I START THRUSTING , IT IS SO GREAT YOU WON'T WAIT TO DO IT AGAIN .
    Ray Molekoa on 26 Nov at 12:01

     

    My wife is also as the man said plus sized. I think that bigger women are better lovers. No hangups and she is always very eager to please. Best sex that I have ever had.
    jb on 27 Nov at 11:19

     

    Ok, she lies on her side, knees drawn up. I kneel in front of her. (on a cushion if necessary)!!! Even without the cushion its impossible to enter her because my penie is way above her vajayjay. Who thinks out this gibberish?
    Al on 27 Nov at 11:54

     

    Al, if you don't get how the thing works than you've never bumped a fat lady before. Some ladies has the big bums and thighs that makes a cusion needed.
    Thabo on 27 Nov at 11:59

     

    Yes, us fat people do have sex believe it or not. My boyfriend recently admitted that I am the first plus sized woman he has been with and that he is very very satisfied with our sex life.
    Cathy on 27 Nov at 15:37

     

    Im a well toned good looking athletic male. I love girls with hot little bodies. Recently got drunk at a party and had the most amazing sex with a fat chick. My whole perception has changed. You havn't had sex till you shag a fat chick !
    Franco on 27 Nov at 19:54

     

    well same goes for big brothers... As a big gal myself, i have to say i enjoy sex and I'm comfortable doing things with my man, because after dating for a while so being naked around him isn't a problem
    Phat Gal on 28 Nov at 16:19

     

    Best position aftr some lubrication of course is she on her back u tease her with the tip of penis rubb her clit, rubb it with ya hand, enter her as slowly as possible when ryhtm is mantained lift her legs up over your shoulder, now this is where all the screams/fun is @, to alternate put 1 leg down have her on her side, brush her booty, breast use some ice tube's heck plus sized ladies they appreciate and give it all, i know i've dated a few, am averaged built
    T on 04 Dec at 11:59

     


     
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