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Dr Marlene Wasserman has a DHS (Doctorate in Human Sexuality) from the Institute of Advanced Study in Human Sexuality, San Francisco, California; an M (Soc.Sc.) Clinical Social Work, CUM LAUDE; is a Couple and Sex Therapist and is a Clinical Sexologist in private practice. She is an AASECT (American Association of Sex Educators, Counsellors and Therapists) Certified Sex Therapist; a subscriber of SIECUS (Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States) and member of SSSS (the Society for the Scientific Study of Sex). She is a member of the newly launched International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health (ISSWSH) and a member of SASHA (South African Sexual Health Association).
She presents papers on aspects of Human Sexuality and Relationships at National and International Conferences and Seminars, runs Transformational Relationship and Sexuality Workshops and trains Professionals in this area. In January 2000 Marlene conducted a highly successful weekend workshop on the Symphony Ship, the first time a workshop of this nature was held out at sea.
Marlene continues into her 9th year on radio. After successfully completing a three-year stint on East Coast Radio, Kwazulu Natal, by popular demand. Marlene returned to this radio station in June 2002. Her radio career as Dr. Eve began on Capital Radio in October 1994 and after it closed down, she moved on to Radio Metro where, after 7 years, PILLOW TALK became a national institution in South Africa. In May 2001 Marlene began "S.E.X." on Good Hope FM, a radio show targeting the youth, the first of it's kind in the country. All are live phone-in shows, focusing on sexuality and relationships. She regularly guests on Radio 702, CapeTalk, East Coast Radio and SAfm.
She publishes articles in national and international academic journals, and is consulted as expert by local as well as international popular magazines.
In November 2001 Marlene's attention shifted to the all important area of Sexual Health, a newly recognised area of Sexology in South Africa. She launched Cape Town Medi Clinic Sexual Health Centre, the first such centre in South Africa. The Centre offers international standards of treatment to both in and out patients and training to medical personnel.
She is currently working on her first book: a definitive book on SEXUAL WELLNESS IN SOUTH AFRICA. Her next book is the definitive book on TEENAGE SEXUALITY. Three other books are planned over the next few years.
She is in the process of producing a first ever, South African made 8-part sexual educational video series: PILLOWTALK: CREATING A SEXUAL LIFESTYLE. Video 1 SEX: BREAKING OUT YOUR BOX is now available from www.kalahari.net Marlene's commitment is to educating people into a sexual and relationship lifestyle that will leave them feeling fully alive!
Read more about Dr Eve on her website.
Question
My boyfriend and I have a 7 month old baby but we stopped making love when I was 4months pregnant.
Since we never sleep together and he never invites me over, do you think he's having an affair? I don't want him to blow a boom. Or do you think we have future together? He does alot for us.
Answer
I am the last person who can tell you about your boyfriend's intentions. Best person to talk to will be him. I am sure you have tried which is why you are writing to me, as you feel desperate for an answer – from anyone!
There are many reasons why men stop having sex with their partners, one of them is that they are more interested in another woman or have lost attraction for their own woman. He may be struggling with erections or perhaps he is not physically well and so has no sexual interest. Invite him to share what kind of relationship he wants to have with you as right now it feels like it is a friendship, and a sharing of parenting. But you want him as your lover. He must rather tell you the truth so you can make plans for your own life. It's your right to know.
- Dr Eve
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