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I would like to be on top of my boyfriend when we have sex but I don't know where to start as I'm too self-concious.


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That's where to start – in front of the mirror – becoming confident about your body , about how your breasts look as you lean forward. Getting fit is another good idea – it helps have the energy, as being on top can be hard work.

Being self conscious is your obstacle so do whatever is needed to get yourself conscious of your beauty, health and mostly your right to have pleasure and take charge of your own sexuality.

Of course trying something new is always a little awkward. So feeling this is your right, that you comfortably can have your body exposed and seen from so close, is your challenge. Being self conscious will ruin the mood so get your groove and once there make your move!

- Dr Eve

 
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