

Question
I had a crush on a physician and finally made a decision to confront him. I sent him an SMS, he responded, we met and had a chat. He acted as if he was interested as he kept on saying it was good that we finally met and wishes that we could do this again. But now he has not called or sms. I eventually called him to check if he was okay, he mentioned things like "he is not settled yet, my time will come...." I'm not sure what he meant. I now feel I shouldn't have contacted him at all, the crush would have gone away with time. After our date I was so excited, I felt some chemistry, we kept on saying goodbyes but still looking at each other. I'm a very impatient person and so have decided to send him an sms to call me so we can have a talk, was that the right move? During the conversation, he asked me what I wanted exactly and I told him that if we can start as friends it would be cool, but he was not in support of that as he explained all the disadvantages of friends.
Answer
My honest opinion, is that you should stay away from this guy and move on with your life. If he was interested in you he would be pursuing you: you have made your feelings for him very clear so it's not as if he doesn't know. From the few words he has expressed he also sounds pretty confused and not at all ready or interested in being in a relationship. You also don't mention whether he is single or has a partner/wife. From the way he is acting I believe that he may well already be involved, in which case would you like to be "the other woman."? There is a great book called He's just not that into you, which is fun reading and I think you may also relate to the situations discussed in it.- Marina Green

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