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I'm a 22 year old women with a 5 month old baby. I've always desired sex on a daily basis from my partner before the baby, now that baby is here, I'm not interested, not in love making, in him. I desire sex from other men, I almost had sex with my male best friend and a colleague at work...this is really frustrating. I masturbate instead of having intercourse with him, I always make excuses and claim that in tired...am I a bad girl?


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It sounds as if you are craving a lot of male attention. I'm not denying your need for sex as sex but its sex with a variety of men. It sounds as if your sexual urges are not under your control and actually having too much power over you. This of course can be dangerous to you and your family. I urge you to seek professional counseling. Visit FAMSA or call SASHA help line, they will refer you to a therapist in your area.

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