Article: Lili Radloff from women24
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The modern idea of "entitlement" has led many of us a merry dance. Just because you think you deserve a new pair of shoes every week or a new car every two years, doesn't mean you can afford it. It's simple really; if you spend more than you earn you'll get stuck in the quagmire of debt and despair.

Drawing up a simple budget might not sound very sexy, but it need only take half an hour or so, and you can give yourself a Noddy-badge afterwards. So grab a pen and a sheet of paper or open up an Excel spreadsheet and here we go...

Step 1:
Draw up two columns. In the first column, write down your set monthly expenses – rent/ mortgage, water and electricity, phone and cell phone bills, children's allowances, medical aid, retirement annuity, ballet classes, gym membership, household insurance, car payments, petrol, armed response etc. (You’re welcome to plagiarise my list, but don't forget to add your own stuff.)

Step 2:
Now write a realistic estimate of other monthly expenses such as groceries, take out, entertainment, restaurants, clothes, cosmetics, toiletries, books, CD's...

Step 3:
Then write down a guestamite for unforeseen expenditures such as school concerts, burst pipes, hair emergencies etc.

Don't forget to add in birthdays every month.

Step 4:
In the second column, write down your income. Add your partner's salary if you share expenses.

Step 5:
Now, add up the amount in the first column and compare it with the amount in the second column.

Step 6:
After you've stopped crying, make yourself a cup of tea/ pour glass of wine and go through first column again. What expenses can you realistically cut down on? (Just so you know – halving the grocery money or stopping your RA is not realistic.)

Take a look at the following things: