QUESTION

I feel tired with respect to my relationship with my son (age 20) who lives with me. Don't get me wrong, he is my life. I just feel that I need something back. He is working but I am paying for his food, clothes and rent etc. and I'm cleaning up after him etc. I just want him to give something back meaning. participation, eagerness, appreciation. I just don't see it. I am 43 and single. After my divorce in 2003 I never really invested in retirement etc. so I only have 5 good working years. Who is going to look after me then if he is "living" off me and I can't save monthly? I don't see the end of the tunnel and feel as if I am going downhill instead of enjoying this time in my life? Please help. Where do I start?