QUESTION

i have been seeing my boyfriend for the last 7 months. Before me he had a fiance for 16 years who still won't go away. At least once a month, she still comes to his house to beg for him back, and she says if he doesn't take her back then she wants his house. I really can't take this anymore, divorces take a shorter time to complete.

He lies to me about what is happening and when she comes past the house, he says it's because I can't handle the truth.

I really don't know what to do anymore. I'm always fighting with him. I just can't seem to stop myself.. I'm scared that I';; push him away and that is the last thing that I want to do. I really do love him , but I hate the fact that the ex is still hovering around.