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Change and transformation

Change and transformation Jeremy Barty

Is something drastic happening in your life? Are you unsure about how to cope or what your next step should be? Ask Jeremy for advice. Read more

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My Boyfriend is moving to the US, we have been together for 5 years and he is my best friend. We get on very well but I don’t want to go to the US and therefore ,not sure if I ultimately want to be with him, if I am not prepared to move. What happens if I don’t find someone as great as him? Change is ahead either way, how do I manage this change?

 
 
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Hi Alex You are having what we call a value struggle, where two things of value are clashing and you are being forced to choose. It seems like you have decided that staying here is more valuable than a marriage based in the US. This is life, and choices have risk and consequence embedded in them. The trick to managing change is to see choice for what it is. Then change becomes easier.

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