QUESTION

I have been married for 7 years to a man 8 years older than me and I am 34. We have 2 beautiful kids as product of the marriage. Every year our intimacy was declining and we tried talking about it and really thought maybe it is just the way marriages are. My marriage has however never been perfect or anything close to that, and I have suggested counselling which he went only once and come back saying it is useless. This year has been worse, we now have 2 months of absolute NO sex and the communication is also slowly fading away. I tried during the 1st month of No sex to talk to him but he said he is so ok and see nothing wrong with the marriage and dismissed me. We then continued with the silence in the house, and he now comes home late almost everyday without notifying me like he used to. I have recently tried to talk to him again and told him that I am worried that we are really loosing it and would like him to tell me if there is anything that I am doing to push him away such that he even gets irritated when I start a conversation and does not have interest in SEX with me. His response was he is tired can we talk about this next week. It was Saturday night by the way, and it is now 5 days and he has not opened his mouth!

I am really hurt and feel so unloved. What more can I do to bring happiness back in my marriage?