QUESTION

I have been married for 5years now, hubby has two kids (two different mothers) I have a daugther from a previous relationship. Then we have a 5yr old son together. Lately he has been saying the most nasty things to me. He sees a problem in everything at home and now accuses everyone of disrespecting him. He has become moody and we feel like we are walking on eggshells. When we ask for things like simply buying bread at home - he has something to say about it - but when his daugther calls in the evening to say daddy I have a school trip tomorrow - he drops everything and rushes to her without saying something like why are you letting me knoww so late.

I am just tired of this and dont know how to handle this - and believe me, I have tried talking calmly to him - but this works him up again and he says things like I have issues with his daugther or I am disrespectful

Please help