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22 April 2008
Naming your baby

 
Eeny, Meenie, miny, moe...

 
Choosing a baby's name is one of the most exciting aspects of bringing a new little person into the world. But it can also be process frought with family pressure and disagreements between partners. Worst still, parents often choose a name for their child based on the personal space they're in at that time of their life. Like an infatuation with a sport star (shame on those who called their boys 'Hansie' some years ago) or a movie star (Charlize Theron laughs at the notion that she's creating her own little nation of Charlizes down south...)

There's a growing trend among white South Africans to name children according to what's important to the parents at the time of birth. This has for centuries been an African tradition, although right now more and more blacks are giving their children Western names, causing a bit of a stink among traditionalists.

People also often name their children according to the time of day or year that their child is born. For example:
Nomsa – grace/dawn
Aurora – Roman goddess of the dawn
Levanna – Latin for rising sun
Luna – Roman goddess of the moon
Badhur – born at full moon
Cecil – born on the sixth or at six o' clock
Octavia for babies born on the eighth
Nomgxi – born on Saturday
Noel – born on Christmas day
Baba – born on Thursday

And others on how they feel about the new baby
Thami – lucky blessing
Gabriel – in honour of the angel
Thabo – joy
Mangoliso – miracle
Abeni – girl prayed for
Amiri – prince
Anana – soft/gentle
Anwar – the brightest
Cheche – small thing
Chike – power of God

The Kabalarian naming system
While there are baby name finders galore on the web, one of the best sites to visit is that of The Society of Kabalarians (a registered non-profit society) that draws on over 60 years of research and experience in providing name analysis. The system is based on mathematical principles that can be used to make recommendations for a change of name to a balanced name, which offsets the weaknesses of the old name, and tunes the mind to the true inner potential determined from one's date of birth. It's uncanny how accurately they describe personalities according to names, and they have covered just about every nation's names (including general African and Afrikaans) on the planet as well as their meanings.

According to the Kabalarians, the names below are the most common/popular South African names (visit the site by clicking on the relevant related link below, click on South Africa and then on the names for their meanings)

Boys
Afzal | Ayize | Biko | Chaka | Chihambuane | Chuguel | Dhayalan | Dingane | Gogo | Hansie | Herschelle | Jak | Kamuliva | Kamuzu | Kopano | Leabua | Mokgohlwe | Mpumelele | Mthuthuzeli | Naeem | Nieem | Nkosi | Nolizwe | Nonceba | Paki | Sigidi | Sindile | Sipho | Sipliwo | Thandiwe | Themba | Tutu | Uuka | Vusimuzi | Xola | Yera | Zulu |

Girls
Abongile | Anneria | Benechia | Blyde | Caryn-Ann | Charlize | Cornea | Dziko | Hananke | Hanli | Kanisha | Keorapetse | Lauren | Liesle | Lindiwe | Mabuufo | Mafuane | Mandisa | Mariaan | Nkosazana | Nobanzi | Nomalanga | Nombeko | Nomble | Nomuula | Nonyameko | Patrys | Penny | Sarah | Serafina | Siboniso | Silezia | Siphiwe | Sunica | Tamaryn | Tanday | Thandi | Thandiwe | Themba | Vasha | Venda | Xhosa | Zylonna |

Tips

  • The trend today is to give your child only one name, but if family traditions force you to include Mathilda or Albertus in the child's name, it won't do too much harm to make it a second name.
  • Don't be rushed into naming your baby. Live with the 'nameless' child for a couple of weeks, even months, until you instinctively find a name that you just know suits him or her.
  • Steer clear of names that are difficult to pronouce, are prone to mispronounciation or invite silly nicknames. Your child won't thank you for it.

    These names came out tops for 2001 in a recent US study:
    Boys
    Jacob | Michael | Joshua | Matthew | Andrew | Joseph | Nicholas | Anthony | Tyler | Daniel

    Girls
    Emily | Hannah | Madison | Samantha | Ashley | Sarah | Elizabeth | Kayla | Alexis

    Lastly, keep a clear head. Don't force a name on your child just because you're under the temporary influence of some new age religion, or want to be as cool as the bunch of brainless celebrities who, in a desperate effort to be different, call their children Rumor, Fifi or Trixibelle. Twenty years from now, it's not going to be very cool at all.


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