4 Reasons it’s totally ok to not be excited about your wedding


Planning a wedding, while exciting, is hard work. Which is why it’s completely fine to not be enthusiastic about it all the time.

Gavin Rajah responds to copycat allegations


The prominent South African designer has been accused of plagiarism after one of his designs was questioned for looking strikingly like Lebanese designer Zuhair Murad’s creation from a show last year.

10 times people seriously failed at DIY


Sometimes we should really just leave it to the experts.

10 early signs that you're in an abusive relationship


Is this real love, or are you on a shortcut to a private hell of abuse? Here’s how you can tell.

How to help a male rape survivor


Why does society seem to deny the fact that boys can be victims of sexual abuse?

How to break your addiction to him


It’s easier said than done, but there are ways to get over him.

LEO: Your horoscope profile: everything you should know about Leos (Part 1)


From a tongue-in-cheek profile, to a breakdown of all your sexual wishlist and desires, here’s a list of all the things you need to know about the Leo star sign.

What should I look out for when buying a new laptop?


This reader wants to buy a new laptop, but isn't very tech savvy. Have any advice for her?

World building in fantasy and science-fiction

Book Club

Have you ever wondered how an author creates and builds a world within a fictional novel from scratch? Melissa Delport, South African author of sci-fi novel The Legacy, shares a few of her secrets.

3 sexiest moments from the 50 Shades of Grey trailer

Celeb Gossip

The anticipated book to movie adaptation will be released on Valentine’s Day next year, but in the mean time, the trailer has been released…

Watch these hilarious Game of Thrones bloopers from season 4 (warning: spoiler alert)

Celeb Gossip

Well we never thought we'd see a White Walker fall off a horse... Be warned though, this video does contain spoilers!

I was battered, and then blamed for it


To all those who stand silently by a friend they know to be abusive, and all those who blame the victim...

If you don’t love that outfit, chuck it


Does your wardrobe need a serious de-clutter? Tracy Gold shares her top chuck-out strategies that will leave you with a wardrobe of clothing you actually wear.

“I got your back!” Where would wedding planning be without bridesmaids?


When it comes to planning a wedding, you need all the help you can get. Thank goodness for bridesmaids!

Real SA wedding: Robyn & Mike

Real Weddings

She was on a date with his cousin when they first met. Here’s how their story unfolded.

When men don't want sex


"Sexcel" spreadsheets: Why is it when a man does it, he's the bad guy, but when a woman does it, it's funny?

'I was humilated by my boss'


This reader was shouted at by their boss in front of their entire company for taking study leave and then given a final warning. Do you have any advice?

Woman forgets sex toy in vagina – for TEN YEARS


A Scottish woman nearly died from walking around with an 11cm long sex toy inside her for the last decade.

When things go wrong at the gynae

Editor's Note

From hidden cameras to vajazzled nethers - going to the gynae is a necessary drag when you're a woman.

8 celebrities you forgot had sex tapes

Celeb Gossip

Never mind Kim K and Pamela, these are the sex tapes you probably won't remember.

9 fabulous buffet ideas for your wedding


Buffets have been synonymous with wedding receptions since way back in the day, but these days it’s more than just a matter of serving shepherd’s pie, potjiekos and rice.

Worst Celebrity Fights

Celeb Gossip

From badmouthing to bitch-slapping, check out our gallery and find out why famous fights just wouldn’t be the same without some public drama and hilarious comebacks!

There’s no shame in walking away from a fight


With relationships come disagreements, with disagreements come fights. Saffiya Ismail wonders, why do we hurt each other so deeply?

Hilarious horrorscopes: Leo


Leos are so utterly convinced that the sun shines out of their butts that it never occurs to them that the rest of the world doesn’t feel exactly the same way.

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