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A reader fears for herself and her children because of her relationship with a drug addict. Do you have any advice?

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I have met someone who has been involved with drugs; he is fraught because he's been living a rough life. I’m a mother of two and I have told myself that I have a last chance to make right choices in my life.

Take into consideration that these two kids are from different fathers. Just after I had found out about his lifestyle before he met me, I am not even sure that he has changed for good. I decided to quit the relationship and told him that I don’t trust him and that I don’t want any regrets in future. I don’t want to marry the wrong person again.

it’s not only about me this time around: I can’t afford to fail my kids. We need to stop seeing each other, but, he refuses to separate from me and even though we were just together for a month.

I’m so scared to continue with this, I don’t want him anymore! Please help because he told me that he's going nowhere. I don’t want him I have a feeling that he's not the man that I am waiting for please help I’m desperate.
-Reader

Answer

Get out now. If necessary, go to the police. Trust yourself. You know this guy is bad news for you and your kids. Leave now.
-Ms Miller

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