What happens when you realise you'd rather be wielding the whip than obeying it?

Was I unexpectedly trapped in Fifty Shades of Bruised after an alcohol-tainted evening?

Being a bonafide freak I must admit I was a little excited if not aroused by a fine, dominating male specimen looking to intimidate me into submission. But, somewhere between the sexy foreplay and the erotic spanking I realised that I don’t want to date Christian, I want to be Christian.
 
Suddenly the prospect of becoming a gorgeous but troubled millionaire seemed more appealing than being an inexperienced docile virgin...

As this insight hit me with the force of a vibrator on its highest setting, my wicked grin broadened as my malevolent thoughts burst into action. 

So, how would I go about living out my dominatrix tendencies?

Communicate

Before you whip out your… well, whip, find out if he is turned on by the idea of submission. Some people are, some aren’t – it’s just how we’re wired.

Set the mood

Let the air pulsate with music, shut out any intrusive light and re-create your own ‘red room of pain’ a la Fifty Shades by lighting candles and draping your surroundings with deep tinted fabrics.

Blindfold him

Using a soft, silky fabric, blindfold him so that his other senses may heighten for a more skin sensitive session that would leave him asking for more.

Use cuffs

If you don’t have any, a towel will do. Don’t tie it too tightly; you might cut off circulation.

*Don’t forget to talk dirty, and with every step explain what you are about to do*

Bring out your toys

Try for alternative sensations, use feathers, leather, whipped cream or melted chocolate to entice a pleasurable reaction.

Use music to set a tempo

When you are satisfied with the effects of your foreplay and he is begging you to end his torture, play music in the background as you mount him like a bull.

*Remember to synchronise your rhythm with that of the music, as it slows down, you do too, if it reaches a peak...lets just say that is all she wrote.*

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  By: Gadeeja Abbas