What happens when you realise you'd rather be wielding the whip than obeying it?
Was I unexpectedly trapped in Fifty Shades of Bruised after an alcohol-tainted evening?
Being a bonafide freak I must admit I was a little excited if not aroused by a fine, dominating male specimen looking to intimidate me into submission. But, somewhere between the sexy foreplay and the erotic spanking I realised that I don’t want to date Christian, I want to be Christian.
Suddenly the prospect of becoming a gorgeous but troubled millionaire seemed more appealing than being an inexperienced docile virgin...
As this insight hit me with the force of a vibrator on its highest setting, my wicked grin broadened as my malevolent thoughts burst into action.
So, how would I go about living out my dominatrix tendencies?
Before you whip out your… well, whip, find out if he is turned on by the idea of submission. Some people are, some aren’t – it’s just how we’re wired.
Set the mood
Let the air pulsate with music, shut out any intrusive light and re-create your own ‘red room of pain’ a la Fifty Shades by lighting candles and draping your surroundings with deep tinted fabrics.
Using a soft, silky fabric, blindfold him so that his other senses may heighten for a more skin sensitive session that would leave him asking for more.
If you don’t have any, a towel will do. Don’t tie it too tightly; you might cut off circulation.
*Don’t forget to talk dirty, and with every step explain what you are about to do*
Bring out your toys
Try for alternative sensations, use feathers, leather, whipped cream or melted chocolate to entice a pleasurable reaction.
Use music to set a tempo
When you are satisfied with the effects of your foreplay and he is begging you to end his torture, play music in the background as you mount him like a bull.
*Remember to synchronise your rhythm with that of the music, as it slows down, you do too, if it reaches a peak...lets just say that is all she wrote.*
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By: Gadeeja Abbas