Lesbians under attack

Black, South African lesbians live in constant fear of being attacked, raped and murdered...

Repeatedly stabbed, gang-raped and mutilated, Eudy Simelane, a former Banyana Banyana midfielder and future SAFA referee, was left to die in an open field in KwaThema, Ekurhuleni, in the early hours of 29 April last year. A well-known sport personality and outspoken lesbian, the 31-year-old’s horrific death sent shock waves through South African communities. But sadly, hate crimes in this country against black lesbians are nothing new.

In July 2007, 34-year-old Sizakele Sigasa and 23-year-old Salome Masooa – a lesbian couple – were bound, raped and shot execution-style after leaving a party in Meadowlands, Soweto. About 18 months earlier on 4 February 2006, Zoliswa Nkonyana, 19, was also killed on the Cape Flats. An angry mob of 20 young men stoned and beat her to death with golf clubs. The reason: her sexual orientation. Although statistics are scarce, Wendy Isaacs, a legal adviser at the local gender rights group POWA (People Opposing Women Abuse), says a black lesbian is killed in townships every three months and at least 10 have been killed since 2006.

"Our black sisters in townships and rural communities are continued targets of 'corrective rape', verbal, sexual and physical abuse, and violence. They are trapped by a collective oppression of sexism, homophobia, hetero-normative values and patriarchal structures," members of the Triple Seven Campaign, which was formed on 7 July 2007 by a network of 25 gay, lesbian and human rights organisations, said in a statement following the murders of Sigasa and Masooa – themselves women and gay rights activists. Despite one of the most liberal constitutions in the world, supposedly protecting and granting freedoms to all people in South Africa, the ugly reality of prejudice and homophobia is rearing its head far too often in this hard-fought democracy.

"I think there is still a lot of prejudice in this country," says Musa Ngubane from Behind The Mask, an online gay and lesbian news site. "We are extremely conservative as a nation even though we have this liberal constitution. I don’t think there has been enough interaction between government and the communities, and that is why people have not been prepared for these freedoms. Many people feel left behind and have remained very conservative, homophobic and xenophobic."

Phumi Mtetwa, executive director of the Lesbian and Gay Equality Project, agrees: "This country is going through a major social, economic and political crisis. We have got to ask ourselves where our constitution is in all of this? Where is ubuntu in all of this? Where is it really? When we look at the killing of lesbians and foreigners we see how little this concept of ubuntu means. When we wrote this constitution, it was to give people individual rights. People like gay people, were supposed to be given the right to choose and live freely. But what we didn’t do was transform society, or the conditions people lived in. So in many ways this constitution is like a rainbow ideal, but out of touch with what is happening on the ground."

Many human rights activists agree that even though important, the Truth and Reconciliation Commission (TRC) didn't completely fulfil its aims to appease an abused and damaged nation. "The TRC was a necessary step, but it should have gone much further," says Mtetwa. "There was blanket forgiveness but we didn’t go deeply into the pains people went through, like losing their loved ones.

Carrie Shelver of POWA also concurs: "Although the TRC was important, in many ways we have taken shortcuts in finding solutions to South Africa's past problems. The wounds of the past have not been adequately addressed and now we see these wounds festering. South Africans are not ready to allow fellow South Africans their respective freedoms and women are defi nitely having their rights impinged on. We don’t know what equality actually means."

Who is to blame?
"South Africa as a nation has its own perception of what it means to be African," adds Musa Ngubane from Behind The Mask. "It does not include the idea that women can love and have relationships with each other. South Africans often think the only way to be is South African. They (men) must control women as their partners; women must listen to them and women must serve them. If you are anything else, there is something wrong with you."

Wendy Isaacs of POWA agrees: "Many South Africans are homophobic and this attitude is often coupled with the myth that homosexuality is un-African. Lesbians and transgender women are perceived to be threatening the 'normal' social order by seeking to exercise autonomy over their bodies and sexuality. By defying the heterosexual norm, they are seen to be provoking moral condemnation, exclusion and often violence."

The Lesbian and Gay Equality Project's Phumi Mtetwa explains: "Patriarchy entrenches very strong roles, and men are given power to decide what the role of women must be. A woman in this system has no rights. It starts from childhood. Boy children are treated as more important compared to girl children. This is a century old system – it's not only in African cultures, it's also in white communities. The man is all-powerful. It's all about control. The war is being waged on women's bodies, what you wear, who you love, where you go. Some men are trying their utmost to control all these things."

Ngubane believes when some men get into groups, traditional and conservative ideals are often expressed in violent ways. "They get this sense of entitlement and a need to assert themselves."

What is corrective rape?
In a document titled "Crimes Of Hate And Prejudice Against Black Lesbians", Wendy Isaacs of POWA writes: "Curative or corrective rape is a term used to describe the sexual violence perpetrated for the purpose of supposedly 'curing' a person of their real or perceived sexual orientation and/or gender identity." The Triangle Project's Vanessa Ludwig says: “These men believe it is their right to 'cure' or 'correct' lesbian women because they see access to women’s bodies as their right."

With more women determining their own lives and finances, and therefore threatening the patriarchal system, corrective rape and assault has become more common.

Worryingly, our schools are not immune to the "corrective rape" phenomena. In March 2008, the South African Human Rights Commission released a report voicing their concern that corrective rape was on the increase.

How do you feel about "corrective rape" and homophobia? Share your views below.

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Adele 8/14/2008 3:30:53 PM
This is a horrific (appalling and heart wrenching) account of events but I have to wonder if some of the men involved in the ?corrective rape? or violent ?punishment? are not gay men themselves (or are close to gay men but can't approve of it)? The role of the African man is stigmatized (provider / male / aggressor etc) much the same as female stigmata but what about our gay male population, does it take more or less for the gay man to reveal themselves. I have a friend, young fabulous healthy gay man who confirms he will certainly get married and atleast, have one child to satisfy his family and traditions. What a dangerous road to tread but alas there is no alternative (for him). I have to wonder, does this man not become angry and bitter himself, does he at some point (have to) prove himself as a heterosexual? If this is very far from reality, what is the general truth, does the gay man in South Africa experience a leniency / acceptance that the lesbian women don?t? [I am actually quite ignorant on the subject so please feel free to point me in the direction of articles etc.]
ari 8/15/2008 9:18:54 AM
It is against nature for women to be together with women. While I agree fully that we must not hurt those who do - we should also not encourage such deviant behavior , it will ultimately lead to our downfall as a society.
Kolobe 8/20/2008 10:48:54 AM
we said this...unless people are allowed to speak freely about this wrong sexual orietations then this kind of things will happen...The government cannot legislate gay rights without consulting the masses! let it be noted that this western indotrinated sexual preferences dont work in africa...brace yourselves we are going to see many of this in future!
jj 8/20/2008 11:12:06 AM
It is sick that people actually support gay relationships.Whats this world coming to
Vuyo 8/20/2008 11:12:58 AM
Ari....and you know this how? Pleeeease, do not judge.
Tuffy 8/20/2008 11:38:42 AM
Users and abusers; that is African culture. Barbaric acts are perpetrated to vent frustration or display power; to try and show others who's the boss. However Africa very nicely ask the Westerners and the Europeans not to try and change African culture but just to send money. The article also reflects the pre-disposition of the people interviewed - they complain about killings of lesbians and foreigners but conveniently don't mention all the farm murders. Only 10 killed since 2006? If they think this is worrying why don't they worry about the 10 farmers being killed every month? Anyway; with 54000 murders a year in South Africa I don't the killing of 3 or 4 lersbians a year is significant and deserving of special attention.
Richard 8/20/2008 1:00:15 PM
Doesn't surprise me to see some of the homophobic responses here. If you don't find homosexuality fits into your idea of normal then ignore it. Everything is unafrican when it suits you... Is it african to beat woman and rape 6th month old babies? Those victims aren't homosexual...
Kay 8/20/2008 1:18:46 PM
JJ, I'm sorry - is your name God? Maybe Yahweh? Allah perhaps? Didn't think so! Not going to spend alot of energy attempting to prompt you to use your brain, clearly ignorance and close-mindedness is your forte. Ari. Against nature? Really? Says who? And Tuffy. Oh Tuffy. Could we discuss the topic of white farmers being murdered in an article ABOUT white farmers being murdered? No-one's ingoring that fact or topic - it's just not the issue right now....in this article. Okay Pumpkin?
Tuffy 8/20/2008 1:22:43 PM
Another uneducated comment from Kolobe. The government is the government and has been put in charge of such decisions because it WAS CHOSEN BY THE MASSES. Or perhaps we should take advantage of Kolobe's point of view and then argue that the government must consult the masses on the re-introduction of the death penalty? And they must consult the masses on the renaming of roads, parks, beaches, buildings, dams, airports etcetera? Come now Kolobe - the masses were ignorant enough to vote the ANC into government on the basis of skin colour rather than considering what policies will be applied. Now it is time for the masses to suffer because of the choices you made (or shall I say "continue suffering"?).
Morne 8/20/2008 1:45:00 PM
Corrective rape or whatever you want to call it is exactly the same as this Xenophobia crap. It is an excuse by thugs to commit crimes like killing and raping. It has nothing to do with curing anything, it is a pathetic excuse. Call something as it is supposed to be seen and called, not some pretty psychological jargon.
Pete 8/20/2008 1:46:00 PM
I think all these "men" questioning the morality of gays to be what they truly are is sickening, and at best a look at a country that has some way to go to truly understand itself. What are you all afraid of?People should be free to do as they like, without you all judging them. These arguments make me think of SA in the 80's with the 'swart gevaar' about to be unleashed on whites. Your arguments are stupid, badly constructed, and typical of the modern South African male wanting his rights respected, but not respecting anyone elses in return.
mika 8/20/2008 2:07:18 PM
education, education and education!
Tuffy 8/20/2008 2:26:04 PM
Sorry Kay. Yeah, me again stirring when no sugar was even added. You actually verbalised my point better than I did - there are numerous committees and groups and organisations etcetera looking at the phenomenon of 10 supposedly-lesbian killings since 2006; maybe the fact that these women were all lesbian had nothing to do with the killings? Maybe it was random? What if 10 out of the remaining however-many black woman killings since 2006 were accountants? Would we then have said we need to form a group to protect female black accountants in RSA from( give it a name)...killings? I wish the lesbian and gay people good luck and fortune and support their freedom of choice. I just wonder if we don't pay undue attention to certain high-profile and visible groups at the expense of all others who are screaming for attention and help, but are ignored? No laughs today I'm afraid. This is serious stuff. This whole male African dominance thing leads to too many conflicts at all levels of society - relationship, countries, political parties etc. Its like two boys engaging in a fistfight at school; although one may win the fight they both end up getting caned by the principal. Trying to be the macho-honcho around inevitably brings with it the consequences.
gti 9/18/2008 7:49:20 PM
jj who are u to judge?......pls make urself usefull and get a life
sibara 9/22/2008 1:12:24 PM
i'm 18 years old, i'm also a lesbain. why the people can't admit us as we are. why they have says although the law did give as the rights
Jo 11/4/2008 3:09:14 PM
I'm suprised to see some of these negative comments about lesbians and gay people. Our constition states that ALL people are equal, whether black, white, pink or gay. The same applies to our rights to gay /straight relationships & marraiges. This article is trying to educate people about hate crimes, which is very big problem in this country, our black sisters are being murdered for the sole reason for speaking out and being who they truly are... yet the comments here are negative and homophobic. More people need to educate themselves, speak out, and FIGHT homophobia.
rams 5/7/2009 3:15:32 PM
i honestly dnt hav a problem with bein gay. im in a very loving relationship wit a wondaful man n we were blesed wit a beautiful baby boy. i just think evry1 shuld b wit who dey want 2 b wit. @ jj dnt b so hard on gay peolple dey dnt choose 2 b da way der r. everybody deserves 2 b happy n if 1 finds deir happines wit da same sex den let dem b.
Jeannie 9/30/2009 2:03:16 AM
WOW!!!! I'm a Black Female from the United States, who happens to also be a Lesbian. This is for those that are so uneducated and uninformed to know that homosexuality does not exist in only the western culture, that is like saying stupidity, ignorance, racism, and hate only exist in certain parts of the World. When will you realize that throughout time people have used the Bible against others because of their race, gender, and someone's sexual preference? This way of thinking only promotes further hate and has been the cause of so much pain. Say what you want about the Western Culture, yes we had to endure slavery here but we have not had to endure genocides, famine, aids epidemic, wars on our soil, nor need help from other countries. I am shocked because those of you believe it is okay for women and children to be raped, mutilated, and murdered and you call someone who is homosexual sick...I don't think so. Black people always try to be so judgmental it is the same here and always try to use the Bible to justify them being the way they are, no one is without sin but children, and animals...period.
JC 12/17/2009 4:26:01 PM
And once again we have to listen to the rantings of people purporting to speak for the "masses". If your "culture" doesn't approve of it, tough titties buddy. Time to drag your sorry ass into the 21st century and respect the preferences of the individual. Get over your stone age mentality. It's so last geological era.
marky 12/17/2009 4:55:39 PM
Very interesting article! But, though this article is about lesbians, I find it offensive that News24 categorises other articles, about gay men, under Women24! What an insult - and it actually doesn't help in combatting stereotyping of gay men.
Justus 12/17/2009 6:04:42 PM
I read the article, I read the responses to it, all I can pray is God forgive us all!
YesYes 12/17/2009 7:45:10 PM
@Jo you say 'Our constition states that ALL people are equal' .. then why is there AA and BEE and and .. South Africa is not equal .. it's very similar to previous white only goverment .. those black lesbian ladies should move into the former white areas .. we wont mind if you are lesbian .. you ladies are welcome .. us white brothers will protect you
Rob 12/18/2009 6:36:27 AM
I am sick of it... why only black lesbians?
always black black black black... funny how blacks can't be racist. anyhow.. life is tough for everyone and everything. screw the colour of your skin
Loudly South African 12/18/2009 7:15:00 AM
I'm curious:
Why do so many people get involved in other people's private lives? One of the juicier aspects of apartheid were the "immorality" [sic] laws.
Why don't those who think homosexuality is against God's will leave it to God to punish? Maybe they don't think he (she?) is all-knowing and omnipotent enough.


Mind you, with Hitler and Mugabe on your side, gay-bashers are in good company.
As a heterosexual male I prefer the lasses to like me, but Brad Pitt I am not.
cuba - @Jeannie 12/18/2009 8:31:14 AM
hundreds lady. this 'gay-bashing' is the last form of acceptable public discrimination that will eventually die out, probably only when those that propagate this discrimination themselves die out.

back in the day, it was acceptable for people to bash others of different races ('nigger/kaffer-bashing' were the terms that used to be used) and no one had a problem with that, in fact that type of behavior was encouraged is our societies. now, in hindsight, we look at the previous fools/regimes and think 'how could they have gotten it so wrong?' and 'what the hell was wrong with them?', and in a few years (or generations) our descendants will look back at all this gay-bashing and think the same thing.
agipoo 12/18/2009 9:02:55 AM
One cannot right a wrong with a wrong. Mika, do you honestly believe that education is the answer?? Methinks the H and L's are the one's that require educating!
As for the Xenophobia crap, how many of those "poor souls" are legally in the country. OK, so move over and let them take our jobs. We should empathise with our fellow south africans who are losing there meager earnings to people who should not be here in the first place
AndreK 12/18/2009 10:02:53 AM
How do you get people to see their barbaric actions for what it is? Isn’t it the same as the Zulu tradition of torturing a bull to death in the name of culture? Or female genital mutilation in the name of tradition. Are Africans happy to stay behind while the rest of the word moves forward?
me 12/18/2009 12:19:28 PM
this shows how savage men are!!!never heard of gay man killed by women or forced into sexual act "raped"to correct their sexual orientation
acu 12/18/2009 2:06:31 PM
i am a PROUD GAY SOUTH AFRICAN and im not ashamed to share that because i am human.... and those that don't approve are just as sad as those who brought them up to not approve of gay people. What is the big deal we are all people just with differences, what i don't understand is why men think they can control women they are not God we are not there dogs and i am sorry to break it to the men that think they are our bosses...this is the new age get with program and catch a wake up. to rape us cause you think your going to cure us just going to push us futher away from men.i don't hate men i just enjoy being with women more and no man will keep that away from me... this debate will keep us busy for hours because SOme men always think they are rite. maybe they see the gay community as a threat which is so stupid because then they realy don't think much of themselves!!!
JB 12/18/2009 7:26:25 PM
Amazing how Kolobe blames government for a change when he always seems to defend it tooth and nail, even when they 'kill' masses of people through misappropriation of poor ppl's funds who need healthcare and food. You are an IDIOT of the first order, Kolobe. Funny how easily many black guys will 'pretend' to be gay and have gay sex just for money in SA and all over Africa.
Tish 12/19/2009 1:35:13 PM
Not a supporter of any kind of gay rights, it goes against my upbringing and at nearly 70 years old you can't teach an old dog new tricks, but I am all for human rights, these horrendus crimes committed whatever the excuse maybe racial, sexual, cultural, tribal, they are tearing this country apart, we fought opression for years to be able to earn the right to live freely how we choose and now we're killing each other other those same rights we fought so hard to get?!!
Chris 12/22/2009 8:50:49 AM
I personally do not agree with a gay/lesbian lifestyle. HOWEVER, I do live by a few principles...1) We are not allowed to judge others. I think if we stop judging we would get along much better. How can we accept wife beaters, fraudsters and cheaters in our communities and not homosexuals. Let him who are without blemish throw the first stone? 2) We are supposed to love our neighbours like ourselves. Unconditionally. My take on that is if you are hateful to others it really says something about yourself. It doesn't matter if someone is gay, from another country or another religion, we should treat everyone with respect and dignity. 3) Thou shalt not kill. And under kill I understand hurting someone physically and/or emotionally. It doesn't matter if you agree or not agree with someones lifestyle you have no business hurting them....just my thoughts on the matter.
James 12/22/2009 10:06:39 AM
Agree with Tish. While homosexuality goes against my beliefs, if what this article says is true then the way that they've been treated is completely unacceptable. There's not too much that the government as such can do about them besides strengthen the grossly corrupt and incompetent police force. Good luck with that. The only long-term cure is going to be in educating the citizens, not necessarily to tolerate whatever anyone else does, but to voice their opinions in a proper and civilised manner, not to take what they percieve as justice into their own hands.
James 12/22/2009 10:15:57 AM
Funny how the anti-gays always come up with the crap of : "it will ultimately lead to our downfall as a society". Please explain to me how if one small groups keeps to itself it will lead to the downfall of the rest of society? I am a gay male in CPT. We have our small section in town (clubs, restruants etc) and mostly keep to ourselves. If gay people offend you, don't go to a gay-club! Respect us as we respect you.
JS 12/22/2009 11:07:29 AM
Nobody have the right to kill others for what they believe or stand for. BUT
@ Jo - 15 years ago our constitution did not have a problem with Apartheid, did that make it right, I think not? So, just maybe homosexuality is not right because the constitution says it is.
JS 12/22/2009 11:14:13 AM
@ James - problem is that some gay people sleep accross borders without informing the other party and that person sleeps with another NON-gay person who sleeps with another NON-gay and and and...... you get my drift. Fortunately, this is no threat to me, I am married, not gay, do not sleep around, neither does my wife. It is still against my religion whether you guys/gays like it or not.
James 12/22/2009 12:28:17 PM
Dear JS

I respect you point of view. I get your drift, but fail to see the point. If a gay person sleep with another person (gay or straight), it was both parties choice. So why does the gay person get blamed?

As for religion, the old testament does say homosexuality is sin, I dont deny this. But the old testament also says that any child that curses its parents, must be put to DEATH! It also states that any person who works on a Sunday shall be cast out. Do you practice these rules also? or is it only the gay rules you follow?
JS 12/22/2009 1:28:24 PM
@ James - Please explain why you prefer to refer to the Old Testament - God(not me) also judge gay people in the New Testament.
If we have to debate our sins: all of us sin, but as a straight person I confess my sins and do not negotiate my sins with God, like you(gay people) try to do. Please note, I do not judge gay people, but believe that what they do is wrong and that they should also confess and work hard not to be gay - iow, to dissociate from their sins like all other sinners.
Nellie 12/23/2009 8:34:02 AM
It's sad really. I'm heterosexual and Christian but feel that I cannot judge another and treat them according to my judgement. My belief is: "thou shalt not judge". Are all these killings / rapes / hatred not a form of judging others that are prohibited in all the main religions, including mine? People, really, there's a lot of homosexual people who do more good than most heterosexuals: it really IS NOT our place to judge them but try and live in harmony with each other.
king capitalist 12/23/2009 10:13:09 AM
Said this before. As much as you have the right to be openly gay, I have the right not to like it. I'm glad that poeple are coming out of the closet, than at least I know who I must keep out of my kid's school, my workplace and churches. To all the gays, poeple like me wont descriminate openly-we will do it in a smart way like firing a openly gay man and replace him with a straight married woman to get a better EE rating etc.
PRESHEN GOVENDER 1/6/2010 8:44:48 AM
lesbian must also been banned from eating finger food at parties
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