QUESTION

I have been single for almost 10yrs. A year ago I met the most amazing man, perfect in most aspects. I have no doubt he loves me, he took me abroad to meet his family, yet I only see him weekends when I go to his place. He lives a distance from me has 2 kids living with him and mine is working and mobile. He had a beautiful large home and even with the kids we have lots of privacy. My place is tiny and no privacy, he also lives close to my work hence I go to him. I am just concerned as to how long to do this. Its hard living in 2 homes . I think sometimes he just does not get it. For his youngest birthday he the kids and the ex went to dinner, I was livid, they not babies but teenagers and only after I threatened to end the relationship and his family also told him it was odd, did he get it. He cant see wrong in anyone, thats one of the thing I love about him. Just dont know what to do. Everyone who sees us together says they can see he adores me. How long to I do this till I say no more