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six months ago, befriended this wonderful guy, who is now my friend with benefits. The problems is I am falling in love with this guy,I have told him how I feel but the problem is he agrees with everything I say. I was involved in a bad relationshp a year ago, I still fear that I might be hurt again. Recently we have hardly communicated with the friend as he claims to be too busy, but he still cares about me and does not want to lose me. At times I feel like I am about to repeat the same mist

 
 
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I'm so sorry Kay, but falling in love with a friend with benefits hardly ever works. It's simple really: does he want a relationship or not. If not, stop punishing yourself and move on to someone who loves you back.

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