Dear Miss K, I am so sorry to hear about your awful situation. Because it is indeed dire and you are in danger. The first step is to tell everyone you can trust and create a support network. Tell your GP, tell the people you work with, tell your friends and family. I know this is difficult - he has probably isolated you from your loved ones, but there are still people who care for you. If you feel too scared or alone to do this, contact your nearest FAMSA branch and phone POWA (people against women abuse)'s hotline: 083 7651235 There are people out there who can help you leave your husband and be safe. You don't have to live this life of fear and despair forever. Don't let him steal your whole life from you. He has taken enough. Please do this for yourself and your child. Good luck.