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My boyfriend of 17 months confessed to me that he had cheated on me with someone and got her pregnant. I am 25 and having no child. I already found him having a child with another woman,which I accepted.
Now he is going to have another one with the girl, even though she told me they had separated.My problem he is not financially stable as he is an enrolled nurse and want to start a family with me.
I was mad with him and dumped him after trying to get his explanation, but failed. He tells me that I should gave him a second chance and forgive him.
I do love him,but my problem is that my trust is gone for him and I think I will be compromised in our relationship because of his two children maintenance. I am working myself.
What should I do? Should I just forget about him and start to look for someone who will settle with me and be faithful?
Portia, I think you've answered your own question. If you don't trust him anymore, how can you embark on a life together? You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you. And if he's cheated on you already and you've not even been together for 2 years, he is WILL cheat on you again! I promise.
Let him be a father to his other children, that he has made through his irresponsibility, and let you be free of him. This man is going to be a burden. How will a nurse ever support your children AND his other TWO kids by different baby-mamas?
No, this is your chance to get out and get yourself a responsible man who respects you. Take that chance now. You might not get it again.