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QUESTION

Hi there

Have recently broken up with a boyfriend of 2 years because of his cheating and lies and found out he had been planning to marry somebody else. I told myself I was going to stay single for as long as I can now just to find myself and all but 2 weeks back I met this guy whilst filling up at the petrol station who I just can't get out of my mind. I like him but my problem is his age, I am 31 now and he is in his early 50s. I like the openness, the maturity, honesty and understanding he

ANSWER

Give yourself some time to recover before you get seriously involved with this other guy. You have been betrayed and you feel vulnerable and broken. Don't let your new relationship start that way. If he's as honest and mature and understanding as you say, he'll understand that you need time to heal.