QUESTION

my boyfriend asked me to get engaged afta we had broken up and he had slept with another girl. now he doesnt want to delete her phone nr. i havent said anything but i did say tht i feel that out of respect for me (as i showed him that i am giving him 110%) that he would have deleted her nr without me asking. i do not check his phone or emails although i am very stressed out. i said that he should not have communication with her as it is still very raw, however he did not follow thru and deleted her nr. i know he can write it down somewhere and lie to me. i just thought that out of respect for me he would from his side show that he "feels" my "fears" and he is on the same page as me ??