QUESTION

I am a 25 year old lady, my husband paid lobola for me four years ago, we have been staying together since. My problem is that he is not working for a year now and before that he wasn't taking care of me. he wouldn't want to buy me anything saying that other man will see me and date me. so now he is not working and I have to pay everything and support him.

I am not stressed, and can't even make love to him anymore, I am confused. Everytime he is telling me that I am cheating and I am not. he doesn't want me to have friends or go out with my cousins.

I don't love him anymore but feels guilty that people will think that I am leaving him because he unemployed. I have spoken to him about my feelings but he doesn't seem to care. can you please advice....