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Myself and my Girlfriend recently broke up. We started fighting a lot about stupid things and the one time (last time) I asked her why she haven’t ever told me about her past after we have been together for 18months and friends for 12 years, she then replied “what do you mean” I then said why haven’t you told me about your dad who cheated on your mom a couple of years ago.
She then freaked and like went crazy. She then ignored me for 2weeks and one day I phoned her and she luckily answered. We spoke and she was all difficult and stuff. I then asked her why is she so mad. She then said I must never talk about her parents again. And hung up on me. I phoned again and asked well tell me the truth then, and she hung up again. This happened numerous times. So at the moment I'm blocked from every social network etc. she never wants to see me again, she hates me! And we don’t talk anymore.
Well her dad has been cheating on her mom for 5 years and it came out 3years ago. They then relocated and the cheating has been going on ever since. You still hear stories every now and again. Our parents have a lot of mutual friends so it’s no secret.
Everyone warned me about it before we started dating and I always believed I can make her happy which I did, but all of her emotional baggage got too much which lead to fights and tears. To top it all of her ex-boyfriend cheated on her 11 times and she found out about it and then we got together. So the thing is she just doesn’t trust any men and think they are all the same. She also denies that her father ever did anything wrong. She denies all of the stories even though I've heard it from numerous people. She thinks he is a super human. She talks average 4 times a day to him. It’s as if he does it to get her on his side. The poor mom still stays with him in the house and cries her eyes out 24/7. She also denies everything even though it is so obvious. And I've seen it happen when I visited them. I don’t know why they get divorced… I think it’s because they are afraid that their daughters will break down again. My ex also cares about her image so much she takes hours to clean up and always want to be perfect on the outside even though she is rotten on the inside. She is also very fussy and difficult about stuff will always ask what do people say about her and always ask me how she looks and if she is fat etc but I still love her so much, I don’t care about all of her faults she is a great person but her past is har
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