QUESTION

My wife's sex drive is gone in total. I am writing to you because I don't know what to do anymore. The last time we had sex was in December 2011! I have tried talking to her and tried on various occasions to be really romantic - but nothing. I even went so far as to go to my GP to get some medication for myself to reduce my libido, but he refused as I am a healthy person. We are both 33 years of age.

I have started to think about affairs, even though I know it spells disaster. I feel either way, it is going to be disastrous....There is nothing wrong with her. she has been for a check up at the doctor and all is fine. No depression etc....The love is there but the physical part is gone. Please help!