Sounds as if you are not having much fun or entertainment for yourself, in your own life. I wonder if your husband expects to entertain and perform for you at night?? Or is this a female expectation?? Its a silly expectation for either of you to have. You are after all performing and entertaining all day at work, why would you want to do this when you get home?? Home is a place of respite, relaxation, pleasure, intimacy. You have identified that your work is what has taken away your life, including your intimate life. Surely therein lies your solution for no interest in sex .. consider why you work 24/7 ..perhaps your attachment there is more satisfying than your other connections. You have adult choices to make on how to spend time and energy- question why you choosing work s your life and lover.