QUESTION

Hi Dr Eve
We have been married for 12 years, happily with kids. It's just for about 4 years now I want something more in our sex live. I want to explore and try different things and toys and I want to cuff my husband and seduce him. I want to slap his bottom and I want him to do the same to me. We did discuss it at some time but he is not interested. He says its silly and he laughs me off when I suggest something else. I am hungry. What should I do? I dont want to hurt him and I still want to please him the best I can.