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Hi Dr Eve
We have been married for 12 years, happily with kids. It's just for about 4 years now I want something more in our sex live. I want to explore and try different things and toys and I want to cuff my husband and seduce him. I want to slap his bottom and I want him to do the same to me. We did discuss it at some time but he is not interested. He says its silly and he laughs me off when I suggest something else. I am hungry. What should I do? I dont want to hurt him and I still want to please him the best I can.
Wonderful that you are panting to have more - and that you are wanting to please yourself , not just him. I hope he can be open minded and hearted enough o want to please you too.
Since you interested in this mild form of BDSM, have you read "50 shades of Grey?" This will give you good ideas- always become knowledged about what you doing before you do it. And then when you have developed some confidence, begin to educate your man. read passages to him of book that appeal to you then he will get an understanding of your sexuality. For all toys requirements visit my site - have safe fun:) : www.dreve.co.za