Early ejaculation does lead men and their partners to feel desperate - I really get that. Read this blog from my site as a start: http://www.dreve.co.za/learn/dear-dr.-eve/early-ejaculation.html You must consult with a health care provider - taking over the counter medications does not help.. A doctor will examine you, talk to you about your life generally, definitely your relationship and then decide if medication is necessary. One has to determine if you really do have early ejaculation or are you just so anxious that you are repeatedly coming too quickly which of course will create a sexual dysfunction eventually. We know that early ejaculation is caused by anxiety and often times by a relationship a man is in.. also look at your expectations: how long do you expect to last inside a vagina? Average man lasts about 5 minutes - rest of men train themselves to stay longer. Go get help now before it becomes unmanageable for you and interferes in your relationships.