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I'm a 34yr old married woman. I have no desire for sex at all. What can I do increase my sex desire? I heard about ZESTRA. Where can I get it in South Africa?
Fact is there is no approved drugs, all over-the-counter stuff is nonsense so you're left to your own devices unfortunately. Please read my blog for further understanding of this very complex and deeply distressing situation : http://www.dreve.co.za/learn/dear-dr.-eve/her-lack-of-desire.html
Zestra (http://www.dreve.co.za/shop/sex-toy-reviews/exclusively-available-at-dr-eves-rooms.html) will enable clitoral engorgement which in turn may make you feel like having sex.. but there is nothing that will give you the magical feeling of pure desire.
It requires you considering your health, your life style, and mostly your relationship- Research repeatedly shows that a woman's relationship - with her body and her partner - and with her family, children and community- impact significantly on her sexual desire. So sort out your relationships as a priority.