QUESTION

I am a happy newly wed and madly inlove with my wife. When making love I find that i struggle to prepare her and get her to become wet. When I ask her to guide me and tell what to try , she too doesn't know. This has resulted ini me no longer enjoying foreplay as it most often than not proves futile. I work long hours and by the time I get home I am finished. To labour in vane turns me off and the lube is most often the quickest fix.

I want to excite my wife again and have her looking forward to receiving me more readily. Am considering getting her toys . Perhaps i too need 4play training? Please assist.