QUESTION

Hi Dr Eve

Thank you for the advice on the 3some between my myself, husband and friend, on your website.

You are right, I'm not willing to risk my marriage because of a fantasy, and as I said, It is affecting me so much now, although my husband promised me that he will not sneak behind my back, as for my friend again, she asked me why did I allow it, as she said anything can develop between them eventhough she won't purposely persue something and she doesn't want anyone to get hurt, (but she only said this afterwards anyway) (that is why I don't trust this whole thing/them anymore), my thing is, if she is this dear friend and we have been for 20+ years, she would not have mentioned this if there is no intentions, it was as if she forewarned me... Nothing happened to date between them, but I just have that fear that if the opportunity is there, they will GRAB it......what do I do...how do I handle it, It might just affect my marriage...as I go into this distrust mode all the time and its making me misarable around him.