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Reaching Orgasm

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I have a problem with getting to orgasm. I have never been able to orgasm during oral sex or masturbation. I know a lot of websites and sex experts recommend masturbating and getting to know your body - but I just get really bored after a while. During sex is the closest I've ever come to an orgasm, but it just seems to fizzle out! I get to the point where my muscles tense and I feel like I can't go anymore - and it's at that exact point where I don't know what to do afterwards.

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