Blesser-Blessee relationships: the new sugar daddies or a short cut to the good life?

At first glance it seems like innocent fun between consenting adults, but a closer look reveals that there is more to the trend. more


Do you overinvest in relationships with emotional vampires?

Loving someone is not a good enough reason to stay in a relationship. Dorothy Black explains. more

Sex and Sizzle

Do you have a sex menu?

Dorothy Black believes we all need to create our own sex menu – and then share with those we want to shag. more



Do you fart in front of your partner?

Keep it real or keep the mystique? For Dorothy Black there are limits to how much you let it all hang out with your love. more


Consider a mediator before getting a lawyer for your divorce

Through mediation, a child was able to reconnect with is his father. Here’s why mediation will work better than a lawyer. more


Why it's so hard to leave a toxic relationship

Paballo Molahlehi finally understands why some people stay in volatile relationships. more


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