"What I find super sexy in a man"

Everyone has those traits they find irresistible. Violet Online shares her list of sexy traits she loves in a man. more


Why you don't need a date to go out to lunch

Being stood up on a date taught Violet Online the power of eating alone. more


Why do men always go for younger women?

Violet Online ponders this age old question and feels she has finally figured it out. more

Sex and Sizzle

The scale of desire is more complicated than you think

Dorothy Black spoke to gender activist and psychosexual educator Delene van Dyk about love, sex and the evolution of our sexual orientation. more


What do "normal" couples talk about on the phone?

"You hang up... No you hang up" really can't be the only thing couples say to each other on the phone, but do we actually know what they talk about? more


I'm finally free from the stigma of divorce

Years after her leaving her husband, Violet Online has finally freed herself from the guilt, pity and stigma associated with divorce. more


How to know a man by his texts

Let your man's texting style help you decide whether he is the one. more


Sexual concerns? Speak to our experts...
Honey Morgan

Honey is a Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, Energy ReSourcing™ & Ericksonian Hypnotherapy Practitioner. -Read more

Suzette Leal

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Work And Money

5 romantic (and really expensive) gifts Kanye has given Kim

2015-05-25 10:48

So, it's been a whole year since Kimye tied the knot - and it seems that they are going stronger than ever. Here we round up some of the most elaborate gifts Kanye has given Kim during their very public courtship.

Books and Astrology

5 Signs you take horoscopes way too seriously

2015-05-21 00:00

We all know of at least one person who thinks that horoscopes are the go-to guide for all of life’s answers. Here’s how to tell when you or someone else is a little too obsessed with it.

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