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Sex position: Mouth magic

From the comfortable to the kinky. Check out our favourite oral sex positions…

Although humans aren't the only animals known to have oral sex (yup, I Googled it!) it is definitely one of the coolest things we, as a species can do. Move over opposable thumbs, hello oral sex! The variations are endless. It can be intimate, dirty, loving, kind, evil… The trick to giving great oral sex is to enjoy it!

Easiest position for cunnilingus:
Lie flat on your back on a comfy bed. He lies between your legs (it helps if he's half-on, half-off the bed). You can either put your head on a cushion if you like to watch or you can let your head hang off the bed for that blood-rushing-to-your -brain feeling.
Pros:
Because you're on your back your belly looks relatively flat so you can admire yourself while his head is between your legs.
He has access to your breasts.

Feeling playful?
Sit on a chair (office or kitchen chair works best) He sits on the floor between your knees.
Pros:
For women who like a little power rush this works a charm.
Also, you can explore that whole office sex fantasy thing. Specially if you sit at a desk and he crawls underneath. “Oh John, you’re going to have to explain these spreadsheets as soon as you’re done down there!”

Or for the more brazen...
He lies on the bed and you – well there's only one way to say this really – sit on his face.
Pros:
You control the pressure etc.
Most men find it wildly erotic – if you don't smother him!
You know that thing we mentioned earlier about the power rush. Mmm. Just the ticket.

Easiest position for fellatio:
Having him lie on his back. Or on your sides, facing each other.
Pros:
Humping his leg will let you be part of the action and also – he'll think your writhing looks hot.

Feeling playful?
Do the porn thing and have him stand while you go down on your knees.
Pros:
If you like to feel submissive, being on your knees generally does the trick. If you're not very excited or a little bit drunk, kneel on a cushion, unless you enjoy a bit of pain, of course. Hey, a world of no judgement.
You can look up at him adoringly/ naughtily/ hungrily (take your pick) and this adds zing. Men love it when you have a pube-moustache.
Actually experiencing how his legs turn to jelly when he comes makes you feel like a sex goddess. Go you!

And of course the 69…
A lot of things in life works better when it's a joint effort. But not necessarily in this case. Although the 69 is probably one of the most famous positions (it sounds so damn good in theory!) most people find that you can't concentrate on two things at the same time, ie. you can't focus on his orgasm and expect to come. Well, most of the time, anyway.

What's your favourite oral sex position? Share your tips in the box below...

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Naughty 1/8/2009 12:52:25 PM
I don't like BJ's. I've received a lot of them, but don't really enjoy them. Prefer giving oral sex than receiving it. Seeing the buildup to a climax is more than worth it, and gets me in the mood! When she's ready, penetration is the cherry on top.
Jo 1/8/2009 1:23:51 PM
What kind of a man does not enjoy BJ's?? As far as I am aware it's one of the things they enjoy the most!!!!
sucky 1/8/2009 1:35:18 PM
People that have not learned to enjoy oral is missing out on one of the greatest things. Oral is usually one direction stimulation sending the message to the receiving partner that you want to give 100% taking in everything that your partner has. It is a message of acceptance more than anything else. Unfortunately some people dislike oral for the wrong reasons and forget the message behind oral.
Andre 1/8/2009 1:38:53 PM
BJ's is the best, giving and getting! I like getting while I drive. The motion of the car help?s and it definitely shortens the journey. I like it in the shower. The running water adds something special. Put ice-cream or a frozen grape in your mouth for an exiting variation. Be careful after eating chillies.
Love it!! 1/8/2009 1:42:47 PM
No better turn on than to perfom oral sex on a "silky smooth" woman!!
Vany 1/8/2009 1:59:52 PM
I love bj's my bf does it gud than wld make a pornstar green wit envy.i hate d 69 i prefer turn by turn.
icbotha 1/8/2009 9:40:03 PM
I can talk as an expert, have been achieving the "nobody can do it better than you" so many times To me kissing the clitoris in different ways, is the best especially biting it softly, slipping your tongue into the p...y as deep is possible, is something none of the 70 girls could ever say no for. Bags
Lewis 1/9/2009 7:23:07 AM
Nothing is more sexy than a woman giving you a handjob prior to the blowjob, now this is what I call heavenly sex, penetration is just a formality and a means to an end for the last mile of satisfaction.
Lewis 1/9/2009 7:23:30 AM
Nothing is more sexy than a woman giving you a handjob prior the blowjob, now this is what I call heavenly sex, penetration is just a formality and a means to an end for the last mile of satisfaction.
poplap 1/9/2009 10:48:06 AM
Ok, I have been thinking of asking somebody gay for tips on how to do it because I do not think I have a clue. No really having that kind of a relationship with a gay guy, I havent asked anybody yet. Ok, so howabout it? Some tips please???? What do guys like? We are both in our 40's and together for 6 months. He is excellent. I am worried about my abilities.
Yes Please 1/9/2009 10:56:51 AM
I love to give my hubby BJ's while he's standing & I'm kneeling...he likes the gag-factor!!! I get totally turned when he thrusts into my mouth.
Lover 1/9/2009 1:16:03 PM
I have to agree with Naughty. I also don't like receiving BJ's. Could possibly be that I haven't received those heavenly ones yet, but I get turned on seeing a woman squirm! And tasting her on my tongue is what really turns me on!
Woildone 1/9/2009 2:03:39 PM
I'm going to add my voice to those who don't enjoy a bj. A lot,l if not most women find giving a bj repulsive and its not because of bad personal hygene. From what I can gather they are repulsed by the thought of a guy climaxing in their mouth. For me, I also prefer to give than receive, please is giving pleasure.
ANDY 1/9/2009 2:12:06 PM
HI THERE, WHY ISIT THAT NO WOMEN COMMENTS? COME GIRLS, LETS GET YOUR SIDE OF THE STORY.
Leigh 1/9/2009 2:27:18 PM
Hey Andy: Read the comments. Poplap, Yes Please and Woildone are women. Or at least pretending to be.
koeksister 1/9/2009 2:38:46 PM
my darling, klink of ek jou nommer sal wil he...;-) Genaaaade.... Raak ek skoon horny toe ek jou mail lees...
Poplap 1/9/2009 2:42:59 PM
I am a woman yes. Afrikaans and all that. Ok, it is not bad to give a bj provided you like the guy. Then it is a very very sexy experience. If he did not have a drink or 10 and takes forever.... Those times when you blow and blow and blow your mind off and the bugger cannot come, is a pest. so guys, remember drinking and smoking and age really influences the older chick's fun. Those times when you start working out the week's menu... You came an hour ago and pappie is still battling... Oi vey...
Great Fun 1/9/2009 3:16:33 PM
Must be honest my wife and I also enjoy it, just seems to add a bit of variety from time to time and does she know how... Unfortunately she does not like me to come in her mouth but if I let her know in time she makes up with the hand... Still great though!
Koos 1/9/2009 3:37:48 PM
Came to the party twice
Oral rocks 1/9/2009 3:38:16 PM
Girls, technique isn't the crux, its just the fact that you're doing it thats awesome! Nothing is more of a turn on than sheer enthusiasm! Personally I do prefer giving the lady but if its offered I'll never turn it down coz its just soooooo incredible! But I must agree that you see plenty of advice to men on what to do but never to women, technique, taste, what to expect etc etc. No wonder some are too nervous to perform
Joe 1/9/2009 4:15:56 PM
Damn this subject is hot, trust me, doing your lady and doing her right is 100 points for brother all at once. She will come back for more. One very important point though, provided she is clean and its a shaven heaven, for me atleast. That is a very sacred spot and it can be messy. But, alll in all, its the bomb to give and an explosion to receive. Make me love my gal even more.
HoHo 1/10/2009 12:11:49 AM
SUCK, baby SUCK! Suck like you're trying to suck a golf ball through a hosepipe. Not having a gag reflex will also have obvious benefits. (I guess bullemics has no issue with this).
ANDY 1/10/2009 8:13:42 AM
YES I SAW POPLAP`S COMMENTS. READ CAREFULL. "HER" FIRST COMMENT AND SECOND COMMENT DOES NOT REALLY MATCH THE PERSON. IS POPLAP A HE OR WANNABE SHE?
sikobunny 1/10/2009 10:34:24 AM
I am a woman who absolutely loves giving my husband a bj. Its absolute heaven! Although many woman don't like men ejaculating in their mouths, for me there is no other way. its kind of like eating the cake without the icing! One tip to beginners(specially for ORAL ROCKS)...lick it the way you would an ice cream and keep your tongue 'light'.In turn, keep your Vajay-jay clean and tidy and wait for the "oral intimacy' to begin. It enriches marriages like nothing else!
ANDY 1/10/2009 11:14:24 AM
OKAY, I AGREE WITH ALL YOU OUT THERE!! ORAL SEX BETWEEN HUMANS ARE NATURAL. THAT IS WHY PUBES ARE SO CURLY, SO THAT THEY DO NOT STICK INTO YOUR LICKER OR SUCKER`S EYES !!
Van Rensburg 1/11/2009 1:18:54 AM
Nothing is better than performing oral sex when the opposite sex is cleanly shaven............both ways.
Reese 1/11/2009 5:18:21 PM
Which idiot decided that this can of rotten trash needs to be spread by news24? What horsesh_t this is. Do you really need to sink this low. Why not simply report the news and leave people's sexlife to their bedrooms. THis is low class trash and you makes yourselves look that same by posting it. Grow up.
Cloudgazer 1/12/2009 9:52:04 AM
A pube-moustache? What a load of rubbish. No man would like to see a woman with a pube-moustache. They's like it see other things, but not that. Whoever wrote this article doesn't have a clue
Mzet 1/12/2009 8:08:14 PM
I like it when my wife groans with pleasure as explore along her coastal areas. She enjoys it greatly and i do too.
sikobunny 1/13/2009 1:03:27 PM
Hey Reese! Wake up...its not 1859! This info helps people a lot with marriage enrichment. I know its helped mine. If you want to see an idiot look in the mirror!
Jan 1/14/2009 3:03:11 PM
FAV ORAL SEX POSITION IS TO LIE WITH YOUR HEAD ON HIS LAP IN THE CAR WITH YOUR MOUTH OVER HIS P.... & HE IS SITTING UPRIGHT & PUTS HIS RIGHT HAND BETWEEN YOUR LEGS WHILE HIS LEFT HAND SQUEEZES YOUR NIPPLES IN YOUR CAR PARKED UNDER A TREE OF A SECLUDED PARKING AREA AT NIGHT AND GO FOR IT!!! WORKS WELL IF YOUR CAR IS QUITE SPACIOUS IN THE FRONT LIKE THE HONDA CIVIC WHERE THE GEAR IS ON THE DASH. YOU CAN ALSO DO WHILE HE IS DRIVING.. BUT PREF NOT WHEN HE IS DRIVING NEXT TO TRUCKS
SuQ 1/14/2009 4:29:35 PM
I think it's brilliant - and very very sexy - mostly I don't come when my man gives me a bj but it still turns me on, the fact that he likes it is a turn on. And he loves thrusting in my mouth - only problem is how not to gag and breath at the same time??? I don't like 69 as it means his nose is pretty much at my bum!! But any other position is good for bj's!!
Phelan 1/14/2009 4:56:01 PM
I am one of those guys who prefer to perform oral than to receive. Don't get me wrong, I love a good BJ. But if you give me a choice? The point was made earlier, that it is not what a girl does. But rather that she is prepared to do it. This is some brilliant advice for the girls. Nothing will turn your man on more than the thought that you will do that something extra naughty for him. The thought, more than the deed! This is one of those male ego things. And we all know that male sexuality is almost exclusively ego driven! Why do you thinks he loves watching you take him in your mouth so much??
poplappiekie 1/16/2009 12:08:40 PM
Ek is rerig, erig, erig n meisietjie. My ma en pa se derde enetjie. Ek moes seker n seuntjie gewees het, maar toe spoil ek die familiestamboom totally en kom toe as ek uit. En ek is straight, alhoewel dit nie saakmaak nie. Ek voel nou skoon poeperig en skaam oor Andy so rof is met my. Kon kinky wees,as hy net nie so gil in hoofletters nie...
Patricia 1/18/2009 10:10:34 AM
i love luv oral sex giving and receiving especialy whn mi man comes in my mouth or breasts it makes me explode another thing that i just want to suggest when giving bj dont only concentrate on the dick try the ass also if very clean heaven
Yes please 2/19/2009 11:18:27 AM
Oral sex is a must for me...I particularly enjoy it when sit on hubby's face and I cum on his face & in his mouth. What a turn on. AND he then also knows that I'm not faking it. Ladies...your man knows when you're faking it...
Sean 11/6/2009 11:36:31 AM
Brilliant!!!
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