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41 ways to melt a woman's heart

There are many things that make a woman weak at the knees. Now find out how to truly melt her heart...

1. Ask her to dance.

2. On windy days, brush wayward strands of hair from her eyes and mouth.

3. When she's coming down the street, across the room, or up the stairs to meet you, walk towards her as soon as you see her.

4. Kiss her in the erogenous zone between her shoulder blades when she turns her back to you to go to sleep.

5. Put your arm around her when you introduce her to your friends and family.

6. Grasp her hand when a scantily dressed, beautiful woman walks by.

7. Call her when you're feeling sad.

8. Kiss her eyelids.

9. Ask to see a picture of her when she was a child.

10. Wash her from head to toe in the shower.

11. If she's crying on the phone, go over to her place. Immediately.

12. Stand her naked on a sturdy chair and lick between her legs until she has a mind-blowing orgasm.

13. Occasionally call her by her first and middle names.

14. Buy her your favourite rock album of all time on vinyl.

15. Order coffee for her, remembering exactly how she likes it.

16. Undress her and put her to bed when she falls asleep in the car.

17. Mention your upcoming anniversary before she does.

18. Send her something in the mail. Anything.

19. When she's feeling insecure, stare into her eyes and tell her there is no-one in the world who could be as right for you as she is.

20. Call her just before you get on the plane.

21. Pick her clothes up off the floor.

22. Try desperately to make her laugh when she's feeling down.

23. Take her to see your favourite sport live. Pay more attention to her than to the game.

24. Touch her arm when you leave the table to go to the bathroom. Touch her again when you come back.

25. Shave just before you see her. She'll notice.

26. Hug her when she gets jealous. Hug her hard.

27. Worship her breasts.

28. Give her jewellery.

29. Hand her two towels when she gets out of the shower. (The second one is for her hair.)

30. Ask her specific questions about her work.

31. Keep her favourite cereal on hand.

32. In the middle of a conversation, tell her you love her.

33. Send her very expensive flowers when you screw up.

34. Take her to a cabin with a fireplace. Build her a fire.

35. Moan her name when she goes down on you.

36. Read her a story when it's her turn to drive during a long road trip.

37. Offer to fix something at her place that you realise is broken.

38. Notice when she's wearing something new.

39. Make love to her standing up, against a wall.

40. Kiss her hand in front of your most die-hard bachelor buddies.

41. If she's too stressed to want sex...
a. Run a bath for her.
b. Give her a full-body massage.
c. Ask if she wants to wrestle.

Got any you'd like to add? Post them in the comment box below.

- Men's Health

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Lati 11/15/2007 3:23:05 PM
Wow, I hope all da men read this article.
Mo 11/15/2007 4:23:07 PM
I'm almost in tears
Pumza 11/16/2007 10:04:12 AM
This is so spot on! am forwarding to hubby right now.
Irene maphosa 11/16/2007 12:15:57 PM
Wow, great stuff, my boyfrend is 70%. I am forwading this him now and i will wait for the 30%.
li 11/16/2007 1:20:09 PM
sigh! if i met a guy who could do all this, i would hold on for life .
Akintade 11/18/2007 6:15:46 PM
Tell her I am sorry when she's annoyed.
Monika 11/21/2007 3:35:42 PM
Mo, I'm crying right along with you...........
boyzie 11/21/2007 4:19:49 PM
I can easily manage about 70%, but what if she nags non-stop?
Tebogo 11/22/2007 7:47:20 AM
He must just hold me sometimes for no reason, and when were are sleeping I want to be held until I falll asleep or after we do it...
Nokuthula 11/22/2007 12:00:10 PM
Look her straight in the eye and tell her you love her, without touching her, and keep looking into her eyes!!
Avatar 11/22/2007 12:32:34 PM
6. Grasp her hand when a scantily dressed, beautiful woman walks by. That does not work. When I do that I get crapped out for touching her only now becuase im thinking about that girl that just walked past and now im 'apparently horney'
Zimbo 11/22/2007 12:56:08 PM
My hubby follow 3,5,6,7,8,11,14,16,20,22,24,25,28,30,32,27,38,39 the rest im the one who does them. He is actually not a chamming person but he makes sure that im 100% happy all the time of my life. Even if i forward him this he would laught because he always believe what he does is the best for me.
Mpumi 11/22/2007 1:56:55 PM
This is what i only dream about my boyfriend will never do this, even when he screw up he doesn't even say sorry, good luck to all the sisters who have great boyfriends who'll go all the way.
ann 11/23/2007 1:49:18 PM
I've been reading this, thinking to myself: has my fiance read this before me? He is great and does all those little things that make you wanna squeeze him. lol
takalani 11/26/2007 12:34:45 AM
unfortunately i dont have a boyfriend, but all men should practice this
Kitty 11/29/2007 9:09:26 AM
I'm in tears also, i wish my man can do all this! Anyway good luck to those lucky ladies who have great husbands.
A 11/30/2007 12:07:17 PM
Ladies, what are the ways to melt a man's heart?
mpume 12/8/2007 11:27:03 AM
guys really need to try this
Old man 12/11/2007 1:33:36 PM
Listen to your wife/girlfriends opinions - not saying accept it but give it a thought / consideration
Lebogang 12/24/2007 12:42:01 PM
Stand with her in the rain and kiss her
Wendy 1/5/2008 9:48:32 PM
Can the man in my life PLEASE not use a list to make me happy? I'd much rather he learn about ME and make me happy by responding to who I am than follow some list some other ladies wrote up as their fantasy melt my heart list?
David 1/5/2008 10:51:46 PM
I did almost all of that, naturally, without having to read it, but she still cheated on me and now I think it's because I... jamais plus...
Katrina 1/5/2008 11:06:15 PM
Not every girl on earth wants jewelery! Money won't buy her love any faster than real affection. Just a tip from a down to earth lady. ;D
hombrelobo 1/6/2008 1:01:46 AM
Good try nr 28 .... :D
Helen 1/7/2008 11:54:45 AM
Having read this, I just realised how much of this my boyfriend does, and I think I should appreciate him more for it...
damo 1/8/2008 11:02:32 PM
when she stinks telll her she smells beautiful
Geez` 1/15/2008 9:10:48 AM
High five for figuring it out so simply.
keron 2/28/2008 8:57:35 PM
find out what she like without she telling you by looking at what color she wear most
Versace 4/8/2008 9:30:09 AM
I am bawling like a baby! This is what every woman holds out for. It is these little things that mean EVERYTHING!
Guy 4/21/2008 5:33:21 AM
Pumza is right. Lati, you can't hope men all men will read this. Nor can females assume that males will ask them out. Many things are missed when you wait and i like Pumza's idea of fowarding it so he can see for himself. Not hoping he'll find it.
Andrew 4/26/2008 3:12:28 AM
What's is appealing about making love while holding her against the wall?
The applepie of death 5/28/2008 9:49:51 AM
quite good but it doesn't give you any lines to say to melt her.for examples of such lines, go vew interview david deangelo and stephane on youtube
Mommadukes 6/14/2008 12:58:48 AM
Send her flowers but send them to her job, so all her coworkers will see. Bring her a picnic (basket and all) on her lunch break. Buy her one rose. Replace it just before it dies, over and over and over... Never let her see one dead. Slow dance with her in the kitchen while she's trying to cook. She might pretend it annoys her, but it doesn't.
Beenthere 6/16/2008 2:11:51 PM
For no apparent reason, tell her she is special When she is not made up, tell her that she is beautiful
Lee 6/17/2008 10:47:23 AM
Call me from work. Call me to say good morning. Give me a flower just because you LOVE me. Watch me when I sleep, & in the morning, tell me how beautiful I am when I sleep.
CHANTELL 7/22/2008 3:27:54 PM
strange how we all say that we sending it to our hubbys it's like they have forgotten how to take care of us
James Boyd 8/6/2008 2:45:41 AM
yeah, i don't think many of these would work with my lady. :
meowphfsst 8/6/2008 3:15:39 AM
when your lady is sitting down walk straight in front of her and using your hand on her chin tilt her head up and look into her eyes for 5 seconds then kiss her and tell her you love her so much.
Tessa 8/6/2008 4:13:28 AM
you all strive for a perfect man too much, except the guy that loves you for who he is and dont try to change him.
spencer 8/6/2008 7:38:24 AM
Men, its a trick. Watch out for scams like this.
Jessica 8/6/2008 8:23:37 AM
this list just makes women sound like a bunch of insecure little brats who can't take care of themselves, whom need constant validation and expect men to read their freakin minds. (i'm a woman, btw.)
Bob 8/6/2008 10:32:33 AM
#42. Don't do all of these things in the span of a week. That's creepy and you will probably lose her. At least stretch it out to a month or two.
donnie darko 8/6/2008 4:07:54 PM
this is the stupidest piece of shit i've ever read in my life.
Lee 8/8/2008 11:27:11 PM
Melting a woman's heart is easy. Remove all vestiges of your own personality. Make LOTS of money and give it all to her. Don't notice that she's gained 75 pounds. Do nothing that brings you joy; do only those things of which she approves. Have no friends other than the ones she selects. Learn to pretend that you've been in prison for 25 years and she's the only woman left in the world. If you share a home, remove all traces of your existence and personality from view. The list is endless...
Sandra 8/12/2008 10:39:10 AM
Wow this is like any woman's dream.... luckily i found my dream guy two weeks ago that just does all this automatically, can't wait for the rest of our lives together
joel kauffman 8/13/2008 6:18:32 AM
No doubt about, it the writer is really an expert
Christine 8/15/2008 1:13:23 AM
This makes me sad.
James 8/16/2008 2:48:14 AM
What a useless bunch of tripe. Amazing you actually make money posting something so inane and so utterly worthless. At least come up with your own content.
Josh 8/18/2008 5:40:54 AM
33:* Send her flowers even when you haven't done anything wrong.
whiskeytangofoxtrot 8/18/2008 8:45:29 AM
Do all this and she won't respect you. Treat her like dirt and she'll come crawling back for more.
md 9/1/2008 6:43:24 AM
obviously some chick wrote it in the form of advice to guys - do you girls think guys are stupid ? what have you girls done in your life so that you deserve this treatment ? find a nice and rich guy - is that your objective - thats what you girls try to achieve by 32?
Wow 10/29/2008 6:45:14 PM
The best part is all the girls EXPECT this shit from guys. Granted from time to time it's nice to do but come on, sending this to your bf/husband is only going to make him feel like shit because he's going to think you're EXPECTING all this to happen and when it doesn't, you're going to be let down. Let it be a surprise and enjoy it when it does but don't sit there and think that this is what the perfect guy will do constantly. You want someone that does all this? Marry your favorite sappy chick flick character. Want a real guy? Learn to like the things HE does for you, not the things you EXPECT him to do.
Roly 10/30/2008 4:30:30 PM
look at her, smile and make her feel like there is nothing else in the world but her.
Les 12/15/2008 9:47:15 PM
i respect what your saying mate every woman should be treated like a queen, WOMEN = LIFE and if any man dissagrees then their truly blind to HOW kind and gentle a womans heart can be with the right treatment.
Otis 12/20/2008 10:50:21 PM
Any guy that even considers doing this crap oughta turn in his man card immediately.
Lilly 12/22/2008 2:59:29 AM
uh... I don't expect all of this. 12 is a little weird. And flowers are flowers but yeah. I guess most of this is good. :)
Robert 12/25/2008 4:33:35 AM
I do this and much more. What do I get? She misses her ex-boyfriend.
jummy 12/31/2008 5:14:31 PM
i really cant believe this, i really love my man to ask me if i want sex, despite foreplays and my being fully turned on especially when he sucks me
MEN EVERYWHERE 1/6/2009 6:59:20 PM
I'm gonna say that unfortunately the only guy that will do this is either gay and or taking estrogen directly into their testicles coz if you're not getting any after you do half these things its waaaaay not worth all this pointless shit.
Anthony 1/17/2009 5:08:16 PM
Bunch of crap....I will tell you what melts her heart....A 10" vibrating wood under pillow..
Jackie 1/25/2009 10:59:04 AM
Hahaha. You guys are crazy. Most of this is not even close, and the girl who wrote this must have been horny, Damn. This is so dumb. "Undress her when she falls asleep and put her to bed" I'd be waking up and thinking "wtf did you do to me, while you apparently undressed me" Thats fucking creepy.
stella 1/30/2009 5:36:56 AM
this is sooo right all men should to read this!
Lee 1/31/2009 3:32:48 AM
Wow...see that tear rolling down...awesome!!
Carmel 2/2/2009 10:34:51 PM
If i could find someone who did all this, i would die a happy woman :)
Lee 2/20/2009 5:00:31 AM
but this is all the stuff I normally do when I'm with a woman. its getting to the point where you have the right to do this that I have trouble with.
RHULANI GRATITUDE CHAUKE 3/13/2009 10:18:49 AM
ALL OF THOSE IS DAMN GREATER THAN ANYTHING I EVER HAD
Gary cheson 3/18/2009 11:01:13 PM
just fuck her up the ass and give her a slap if she complains
mary 3/20/2009 9:30:10 AM
if only my man could all these I'd be one extremely happy girl....
sips 3/20/2009 5:17:01 PM
This will not work wit women, you give then a palm they want the whole hand and become selfish, self centred to a point where she annoys you. You will not go out to have a beer in a bar if you practise this.
bobmuff 3/25/2009 12:19:58 PM
I try to do this from time to time but no success. Showing some affection for no reason in public or private is good for men and woman, yes men also needs to recieve... it keep the relationship strong. My woman is just to shy to show affection infront of others.
T 4/3/2009 10:57:18 AM
Cool stuff but theres so much more to do guys. About the nagging part boyzie perhaps you wanna pick up a book called "The Love Dare" and even watch the flick Fireproof, book based on the flick. Will do wonders. I'm divorced but I tell yo uI've learnt to much from reading that book and hopeless romantic to go with that. But the right one will come. You're right ladies all men should read this
john 4/7/2009 2:03:23 PM
Would any of you girls return the favour?How many men out there also want the same from his woman?
phizzle138 4/9/2009 2:08:40 PM
bail her out of jail even tho u have the kids n she is drunk again
Baz 4/16/2009 12:36:40 PM
Been doing thiese things for a long time, and trust me it works!!! Gents, make these things part of your good habits list and you will certainly be in her good books 99% of the time.
Naasif Regal 4/17/2009 4:33:03 AM
Easy peasy!!!!!!!!!
Willy Brown Balls 4/29/2009 4:03:55 AM
This is crap. I've tried all this with women and it doesn't work. If you are too nice she will stop wanting you. I think all men get to realise this and that is why they wont do it. The problem is that women only want what they cant have.
MJ 5/3/2009 11:57:29 AM
Give her anal sex every night.
VaNessa 5/29/2009 6:04:47 AM
KISS HER ON THE CENTER OF HER FOREHEAD...
Thabo 6/29/2009 2:59:09 PM
dont mean to sound negative, but i do all these things, problem is my woman neva notices...she's not a big fan of affection. :(
bytjies 7/1/2009 4:13:55 PM
well im a big fan of doing all these things for my man. i give me bjs in the mddle of a movie just for fun, i watch his fave movies, run him baths, give him massages, and i love dressng up for him and smeling nice for him. and he shows appreciations.......... in the cutest ways
lonelyheart 7/2/2009 12:42:23 PM
beautiful...what woman could resist
kelsikils 7/7/2009 12:34:13 PM
OMW...isn't this just what every women wants and needs? Problem is where do you find a guy who does all this?
Nto 7/8/2009 4:00:37 PM
copy and paste to my hubby!!!
sad 7/14/2009 10:36:03 AM
Lame.
betty123 7/16/2009 12:08:27 PM
Irene.....if your boyfriend is doing 70% of this forget the 30% , justh old on to him since some women receive exactly 0%
Gontse 7/21/2009 2:48:42 PM
I wish all man were like this,i was crying while i was reading this.i dont know when did he last kiss my forehead and bought me my favourite flowers or pour water in the bath for me...
Gugu 7/22/2009 8:57:14 AM
Wow, that was something very powerful. I'm going to divuldge a from the topic. I have a huge problem, My hubby is cheating and his girl friend phones me and tell me, that she enjoys sex with him and she's now pregrant with his child. I asked him and he denies all of this. He's always away from home most of the time. At once I found condoms in his laggage, just when I thought our sex life was ok between us. It really destroyed me. Not that I had found out that he is sending out sms's to his girlfriend asking her to make love because the weather was too cold during the day. She then fones me and tell me that she can have him anytime.By the time he sleeps with me he had already had a good time with her. He just have sex with me just beacuse I am his wife not just because he loves me and wants me. I have lost trust in him. I have tried to fight this battle alone but I am not winning, Sometimes he comes back home tired and he'll just sleep without even saying goodnite. If he does not do that he'll sit till late or until I go to bed. He comes to bed very late after 11Pm and I'll only see him in the morning when he wants the morning glory. This morning I told him I am not feeling him. I had to have a way of dealing with this situation. He was so angry when I told him that. He ejaculates just when I start to enjoy myself and that is it. How do I deal with this. I need your advice.
nomadlozi 7/22/2009 3:48:27 PM
kiss her on the forehead after u`ve told her that u love her
Rodgers Mabasa 7/23/2009 11:02:23 AM
I think most of this I have done,thank you for ecouraging me.
tessy 7/27/2009 11:53:07 PM
am ready in tears.i wish all men cld learn.
Londeka 7/29/2009 12:00:49 PM
90% of what my man is doing, it just that he is short tempered
fortunate T.Majere 7/29/2009 3:51:24 PM
This is too good I didnt know all those 41 points to drop my wife down in love. Thats great
fortunate T.Majere 7/29/2009 3:51:41 PM
This is too good I didnt know all those 41 points to drop my wife down in love. Thats great
fortunate T.Majere 7/29/2009 3:53:24 PM
This is too good I didnt know all those 41 points to drop my wife down in love. Thats great
charlie 7/29/2009 5:02:43 PM
Wash the dishes and clean up the cats puke
cosy 7/29/2009 6:30:19 PM
What about what men want.. why always women.girls girle and girls. Keep us men happy as well we aslo want to be hold and s..ck. Gee come on get a grip
Mikeyv 7/30/2009 7:46:00 AM
Brilliant points. Will start puting them to work immediately with my wife....
Bugs 7/30/2009 8:00:17 AM
Make breakfast in bed, do the laundry, take her shopping.....the list goes on....
B 7/30/2009 8:53:46 AM
Seriously, if I met the man with these traits, I would want to spend the rest of my life with him ;-) sadly, they don't exit anymore...
Kabelo 8/2/2009 12:36:52 PM
I can only manage three things: tell her I love her, have mind blowing sex and now and then and go out and have fun. 41 things is too much for me! Maybe she will dumb me one day for all the missing 38.eish
Mr Balance 8/3/2009 1:54:59 PM
Sorry ladies, experting all this or even sending it to your lovers will be a blunt and you'll be lost. Be careful you might remain single until reaching "Gogo ages" by experting all these. Yes they are good but where on earth are you going to get all these? Learn to appreciate and improve where it it necessary within your relationships "just a little on certain areas" otherwise WE men are going to dump all our lovers because the expertations are too hight.
Tumelo Mol 8/6/2009 11:45:20 AM
I hope all the brothers out there are reading this.... Should i find a msn who will do all this .....he will be for keeps
Sandy 8/9/2009 11:58:08 PM
Try to understand her feelings take care of her.
Nokubulela 8/13/2009 10:56:14 AM
look straight on her eyes and tell her u love her.......mhhhh ths makes me melt......
CIRCO 8/19/2009 8:35:46 AM
I DID ALL THIS THAT IM SIENG IN FRONT OF ME READING IT AGAIN I ALREADY EXPERIENCE IT SO MANY TIMES WITH SOMEBODIES SO MUCH BUT TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH.DONT FORGET TO IS LIKE THE SONG SAYING UNAPPRECIATED.I JUST CANT FIND THE RIGHT ONE EISSSSSH.
Biranchi Narayan Sarangi 8/19/2009 12:15:51 PM
Matter
gig 8/27/2009 12:05:56 AM
This is just holy crap. How many laddies have done this to guys-i bet u a girl justy wrote holy crap here. Bullshit
Laura 9/18/2009 11:53:15 AM
41 ways to melt a man's heart???????
Mbita Silutongwe 9/23/2009 12:43:25 PM
I can safely say that i do at least 50%.
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